After a breakup, ever thought that suddenly, somewhere, you’d run into the familiar guy? It’s like being in a movie, but drama is like life, and maybe when you see him, you think, “See him again.
I. Meeting, on some unexpected occasion
I. Meeting, on some unexpected occasion
“text-indent:2em;text-align:left;”>It could be an old school reunion in “To the End of Love,” or a middle-aged or elderly little yellow hat tour group in “Heartbeat,” or in “Conversations with the Women” a wedding reception with a temporary top bridesmaid. But the more fancy forms are all green leaves, and they are all ultimately oriented toward making a wedding dress for this reunion of yours.
Men and women are past their prime and are so used to seeing the joys and sorrows of their loved ones that they don’t realize they’ve lost sight of the wedding vows. The woman is bored and wants to find a quiet place in the crowd to smoke a cigarette, and the man is not moving to follow with two glasses of wine, and the show is about to begin.
Two, the familiar and unfamiliar TA, needs to be reacquainted
As the saying goes, old loves see each other, you may have once loved each other so much that you couldn’t tell the difference between right and left hands, but eventually fell in love and went your separate ways. The first time I saw you, I had to go back to the beginning of the day.
The man hands the woman a drink and begins a seemingly unlikely encounter. The woman declined the man’s wine, but in fact acquiesced to the flirtation. Because they had the same conversation when they were in love, the man was merely cleverly evoking a fond memory of the woman, and the woman’s positive cooperation hinted at the possibility of the next step.
Three, a little awkward and a little enjoyable
The fun of playing the game It’s in the bursting satisfaction that comes from clearing obstacles to get through, and the same is true of old love stealing. For reunited old lovers, cheating is a visible warning line, and the difficulty of crossing it depends on their residual good feelings and the strength of external obstacles. The dilemma of not being able to find a car and buy a condom in “To the End of Love” makes the cheating duo red-eyed and anxious to get to the end of the affair.
Because of the presence of a third person, the idea that the man and woman who were still in doubt wanted to do something about it became stronger and stronger, whether it was to get out of an awkward situation as soon as possible or to play the game, in short, the presence of obstacles made the reunion the next step. The next step is inevitable.
Fourth, from a one-night stand
Almost all reunions involve a one-night stand. Reunions are not without a one-night stand. The young man and woman in “Heartbeat” did the craziest things but didn’t have sex until they reunited years later to make up for it. In “Letter from a Strange Woman”, love has become a thing of the past, leaving only vain sex. The old lovers meet after many years, is it just to finish what was once left undone?
The woman says, “Why do we do this, it doesn’t help the past, it doesn’t help the future, why do we do this?” Perhaps sex is just a ritualistic presence in every long-ago reunion, a futile reminder of years gone by.
V. You’ve changed and he’s changed
This is probably the saddest step in this reunion. I’m not sure I’m going to be able to do that. What have you been doing while I was away? I’m growing old with boredom. I’m no longer the girl I remember reading under a tree in a blue striped dress, and you’re no longer the boy who came in from the sun.
When a man’s beer belly is naked against a woman’s sagging breasts, the irresistibility of age is strikingly obvious. The newest and most popular of these is the “newest and most popular”.
Six, it’s time to return to reality
A long goodbye reunion kills old love The new love will also be affected by the reunion. We have to admit that there is a mentality that if I know you’re not doing well, I’ll be relieved.
So men wishfully assume that a woman’s married life must be mediocre and that her lover is always uninteresting. They exist only to set off the beauty of the past, and the best thing a man can do is to spice up a memory so that it becomes more moving.
Seven, fantasizing about how it would have been if we hadn’t broken up
Reunion has come to this The reunion has shown its fatigue at this step, and all the vows are just a dying struggle. The Titanic had not sunk, and Jack and Ruth were just an ordinary couple fighting each other in “Revolutionary Road”.
A man promises a woman that he will grow old together and die like Romeo and Juliet. The woman said, if that is really the case, Juliet will not die, dead only the man, and she will not kill herself again. The truth about the reunion of an old love is that it is just a delusional masturbation.
Eight, it is better to be together than to forget each other
See the The cruel truth of life, and then continue to live as if nothing has happened, is by and large the horror of being a human being at the top of the food chain. When the hormones recede, the time has come for the reunited lovers to go their separate ways.
We often say that love is what you see at first glance and what you don’t get tired of seeing. The majority of old love reunions end up being nothing more than sighs of nostalgia.
When it comes to old love and new love, it’s really a tangled relationship. It’s only when the person in question knows how. In any case, make sure you are not passionate impulse want to do something, it can be. After all, relationships are not child’s play, and careful consideration is a responsibility to yourself and to others.