Many of the leftover women dating to see the light die because they always like to put up a show, so noble that they feel superior. Paradoxically, it is obviously very proud, but also willing to blind date. Since dating should learn to put down the body, this era, the initiative may be lost love, waiting for others to take the initiative to stalk but too stupid. Abandon the damned reserve it. The reserve will only make the other party faster to deny the blind date. So, why do leftover women have frequent failed blind dates?
1. Too much enthusiasm, too much purpose, makes the other side think you’re a marriage junkie.
It is undeniable that many of the leftover women choose to go on a blind date because they hate to get married. But I caution you leftover women, and then anxious not to write the hate marriage on the face, straight to the point to show the purpose, or excessive attentiveness to each other to show good, are very silly behavior. Your too much enthusiasm will scare away the other party and make that other party think you are a horrible marriage freak.
2. Being too formal and uncomfortable, not knowing how to present yourself, makes the whole date dead.
Contrary to the above, there is another category of leftover women who are too formal and don’t know how to show their strengths at all. The entire date is a mechanical question and answer, no fun to say, this depressing atmosphere makes each other just want to end the date as soon as possible. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you want to do.
3. Habitually preoccupied, once you’re not satisfied with the other person’s first impression, you start to get distracted from the date.
It’s not a good habit to jump to conclusions about a date too early. Don’t put too much emphasis on first impressions, and don’t dismiss the whole date because of a bad feeling at first sight. It’s too early to jump to conclusions, but give each other and yourself a chance to get to know each other better.
4. Too pretentious, you’ve come on a blind date, but you still like to be condescending and pretentious.
Many of the leftover women who are dating die because they always like to put up a front and feel superior. Paradoxically, it is obviously very proud, but also willing to blind date. Since dating should learn to put down the body, this era, the initiative may be lost love, waiting for others to take the initiative to stalk but too stupid. Abandon the damned reserve it. The other side will only dismiss the date more quickly if you are too reserved.
From the above psychological characteristics of leftover women’s dating failures, it seems easy to see that leftover women want to escape their fate of being left, but more often than not, they need to correct their mindset and maintain their mental health, so that they can meet a new relationship in the most perfect condition. The most important thing is that you will be able to get a new relationship and harvest a love that belongs to you.