Let’s use a magnifying glass to see what typical actions men take when they are about to cheat.
One of the best ways to get out of a relationship
He’s been talking about working late or going on business trips, spending less and less time at home, and spending less and less time shopping with you.
While not all “workaholics” represent emotional infidelity, some men will gradually disappear from their normal family life before making up their minds to cheat.
At this point, it’s best for the wife to politely talk to her husband about his work, or get a sideways glimpse of what he’s really doing, but it’s best to give him leeway and not provoke him head-on.
Two expressions of discontent
He starts to pick on your taste in clothes, and when you tell him how hard it is to work, he always suggests you see a therapist: “I know you’re very busy, but I can’t always listen to you complain, you’re putting stress on me and the kids. ”
On the positive side, he probably wants you to do better; on the negative side, he’s probably looking for an excuse to cheat on himself.
Wives would do well to figure out what he really thinks, address the issues he raises, correct them if they are there, make themselves more perfect and sober, and see what their husbands are going to do next.
Three desire to be valued
Husbands begin to complain about having to compete with their children for favor, feeling that their wives spend less time with him than their children and are often left out.
Many wives will focus on their children after they have children, which is likely to lead men to seek attention in others and cheat on them without realizing it. The best way to do this is to try to have a deep conversation with your husband and tell him that the children need more care now, but that your love for him has not diminished.
Four has nothing to say
Refuses to talk, won’t even let his eyes fall on you, but seems enthusiastic and talkative when answering others’ calls.
Many men lose interest in talking to their wives after marriage, often stressing that “I’ve grown and you haven’t” and using that as a reason to refuse further conversation.
The wife has to be the first to break the silence and talk to him. You need to stay calm and encourage him to give more input to help you grow. If he is just looking for provocation, your questioning is enough to end his boredom.