Some people use each other because of the constraint relationship at work, collude with each other, work together, become a line of two cicadas, the two sides can not leave who, thus producing extramarital love, in fact, as the saying goes: “hands do not stretch, stretching hands will caught”.
One, the psychology of compensation
Some people are lonely because the couple is separated, or because one of the spouses has a physical defect, physiologically unsatisfied, or the relationship between the couple is not good, so they actively seek a third party or are willing to accept a third party to compensate, thus forming an extramarital relationship The relationship between the husband and the wife is not a marriage. In fact, sex is not the whole content of the couple’s life, as long as the couple strengthen contact, emotional communication, miss each other in the heart, life is still full, and there is no need to compensate.
Two, the psychology of love owed
Some lovers do not end up in love. The two sides of the family, or a family after the other side does not want to become a family is still secretly in love with each other, when one side of the life difficulties or husband and wife feelings and discord, the other side feel that they still owe the other side of the love and therefore take the initiative to put into the arms of the old lover, the old love again, thus producing extramarital love. In fact, the lovers may not be able to become a family, since the two sides have each become a family or each other has become a family, should face the reality, cherish the feelings of the couple, when the other side of life is difficult or the couple’s feelings are not the same, with extramarital love to repay each other’s love, rather than help each other, rather than to say that the damage to each other, it is not helpful.
Three, greed for money
Some people are greedy for each other’s money and money. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. In addition, those who have money should also be careful not to give true love for each other, since the other party is coveting your money, and why give true love for each other and produce romance.
Fourth, the psychology of appearance
Some people, because they covet the beauty of the woman or The man’s fit body, take the initiative to show love, thus creating extramarital love. In fact, the beauty of the appearance of beauty, with the growth of age will naturally disappear, only the soul of beauty is eternal, like a fine wine, the longer the more mellow. The most important thing is to be good at finding your spouse’s shining point and offer yourself a piece of true love, so that the lover’s eyes will naturally have a western beauty appear.
V. The mentality of repayment
Some people get help from each other because they have difficulties in life, or because their husbands have been in trouble for a long time. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem, and to help the company’s customers. In fact, since the other party sincerely help you, you do not want your return, the other party to your kindness, you remember in your heart on the line, why give their bodies? The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
Six, revenge psychology
Some couples because one of them had an affair and did not listen to the advice, the other side in order to The other party, in order to take revenge on the other party, actively seeks a third party, thus creating an extramarital relationship. In fact, if you know that it is wrong for the other party to have an affair, why do you look for a third party, is it not a mistake?
Seven, good strange psychology
Some couples have a mediocre life and find it boring. The main character of the film and television is in love with his lover, and the waves rise, and live a tasty, elegant and comfortable, they also want to experience this life, so, driven by this curiosity, resulting in extramarital love. The actual fact is, peace and quiet is a blessing, don’t this mountain look at that mountain high, being in the blessing don’t know blessing.
Eight, the psychology of pleasure
Some people are influenced by bourgeois sexuality or by the idea of liberation. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. In fact, sexual liberation and obscene films and books are harmful toxins that each of us should consciously resist, to establish the right moral and life view, not to be mistaken for arsenic as white sugar.