No one wants to be “left behind” when they’re three or four years old, so here are 8 tips to get you out of the leftover circle.
1. Elegant but not pretentious
What women make men afraid? A woman who is pretentious. What women in particular scare men? Women who are happy to be pretentious as elegant. But these are two easily confused concepts. Briefly, the elegant woman not only likes to hold a highball glass floating in the cocktail party, she can also carry a can of beer in the seafood stalls. And for those ladies who don’t call it dinner without candlelight, I’m afraid there’s still “leftovers” to be had.
2. Confident but not egotistical
This is a subtle comfort. For example, if the car is about to pull into a highway toll booth, and his two hands are both gripping the steering wheel and busy lowering the windows, he will feel this comfort when the woman next to him thoughtfully hands over the right amount of change so that he is not too frazzled.
No one is asking you to bend over backwards, just to provide a little convenience when he’s inconvenienced. A man marries to get a tacit partner in life. If you think it’s right to stand by and watch, then no problem, condescending solitude is also a realm.
3. Seductive but not pestering
Ever seen a circus show? Whether it’s a clever elephant or a naive black bear, they all get a favorite piece of candy or a small snack after they finish the show. The trainer is pragmatic and understands that candy is more effective than a whip to keep these behemoths well-behaved and obedient. If you drive them around endlessly, you’ll be tired, and the bears may go on strike if they get angry.
With men, too, attraction always works better than prodding. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. If you think it’s better to pester for insurance, it doesn’t matter. The difference here is simply the word confidence.
4, persistent but not paranoid
Waiting for a man who respects you as a person, who is responsible, who is not shabby in material things, who is not vulgar in cultivation, then this is the persistent “marry a good man”. Waiting for a man, he should be both rich and handsome, both romantic and dedicated, both wise and young …… then this is the paranoid “non-elite not married”. Does such a perfect man exist? Maybe it exists? But what makes him sure to marry you?
5. Learn to be strong
The prerequisite for attracting others is to adjust to yourself. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. A woman who is slightly depressed and seeks dependence and support is a good prey for a playboy.
6. Learn to bargain
“Left” down, stop fantasizing. The “leftover” women are facing men who are over 30 years old and “old fashioned”. So while flirting, don’t forget to talk terms!
7. Learn to wait
Which costs more, marrying wrong or not? The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
8. Learn to be entertained
Be entertained, but not be entertained! The male companions around you may make potential good men misunderstand you as a woman, more likely to make you a leaf. A discreet and polite “GamePartner” who knows how to exercise restraint and manners, and who can give up his place in time, is even harder to find than a husband. If you’re not sure you want to be lonely, you need to be strong and find the right person.