Living together is not about getting married or anything like that, but two couples living together have to plan for the present or the future, living together is not just two people living together is OK, just like marriage, two people together have to face various problems and consider the present or future. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
1, both parents
If his parents still treat him as a child If his parents don’t get along, even superficial harmony will be a problem; if you don’t like his parents, or if he doesn’t like yours, it will also be a hidden danger for future happiness.
2. How to spend your days off
If you love to sleep on your days off The first thing you need to do is to get up early and clean up the house, and you’ll have to get into a fight. The difference in wake-up time creates friction that only parents can tolerate; on the other hand, if the other person is indecisive and can’t decide what to do together on the weekend or, on the contrary, always decides roughly what to do, it will create discomfort.
But this one is better solved by both parties setting a rule, like Saturday is girls’ day and Sunday is boys’ day, and girls take precedence on girls’ day and listen to girls on everything. And vice versa.
3. Can the discussion about children be agreed upon
Before the marriage on The first thing you need to do is to discuss this topic in depth and repeatedly so that you know if the other person’s ideas are in line with your general direction. For example, if one wants children and the other doesn’t; if one wants to fill in the education and the other wants to develop individuality, etc.
4. The way money is used
One saves, one wastes. For example, when you get your utility bill each month, the one who saves may complain:
Why do you always forget to turn off the lights? Why do you keep leaving the water on when you brush your teeth? One buys when he likes it, the other always buys cheap …… difference in terms of money, the difference in the way to buy things actually contains a whole difference in values.
5. Household chores
In fact, this includes not only the question of who should do how much housework, but also the question of who should do what.
Other details of life that need attention include: TV remote control rights; diet (noise during meals; whether to drink too much; whether to continue eating overnight dishes or to pour ……); especially now buy a car more and more people, and a new problem: in your driving, he will not always guide from the side (nagging)? He always wants you to follow his route driving? It seems that men who learn to remain silent internally are increasingly rare these days.
Everyone knows that when you get married, you have to pay attention to the small details of your life, so you don’t let the small things become the fuse for future outbreaks.