I often hear wives or husbands complain: “Physically close, but the distance between our hearts is getting farther and farther, as if, we have become the most familiar strangers.”……
Sweet words that slip away
Wife’s view: Since we got married, he seldom said sweet words to me. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. Now it’s harder than ever to hear him say “I love you”.
Husband’s view: We are a family now, I love her and she loves me, we know this very well, so why repeat it?
Couples in love seem to have an endless supply of whispers and vows after vows that are always touching. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
It is true that life after marriage is much more realistic, but the only way to keep things fresh in the ordinary life is to continue the heat and enthusiasm of the relationship, so that both spouses feel happy in the trivial daily life. Otherwise marriage can really become the grave of love.
Learn to pillow talk at night
Social competition is fierce and there is a lot of pressure on everyone. When you get home, you just want to rest and are too lazy to say anything more with your lover around you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. It doesn’t have to be an earth-shattering vow, it can be a small thing that happened around you today, something interesting you saw and heard, which contains care and thoughtfulness and will definitely move each other more than sweet words. And the bed is a good place to solve many problems.
Rousing fond memories
Take out the yellowed love letters, the doll you were given for the first time, the movies that made each other hold hands, the pictures of trips around, these are the memories of when you were in love. As life tapers off, we need to keep these passings in play. It’s important to look back at the days we’ve walked together, and the sweetness and hard work that went into it will surely make each other stronger in our relationship and more appreciative of what we have now.
Continue to express affection
Give feedback on your spouse’s loving actions and express what you really feel inside. For example, if your wife can’t rest after work and cooks a big table, your husband should give her praise: “Honey, I love your cooking. If you do this again, you will make me fat!” The wife’s fatigue will be gone when she hears such words.
Communication is the most important tool in a marriage, and the essential element of communication is language. The most important thing that you can do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Family life taken away by career
Wife’s view: He spends more time at work than at home, he has endless projects to write up, and he has to go out to clients on his days off. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product.
Husband’s point of view: I work so hard so that she can eat well and use good food.
They are not only not understanding, but they are also playing with me.
Both before and after marriage, we all want our loved ones to spend as much time with us as possible, and that’s human nature. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. Any marriage needs a material foundation, and the way to get money is to work. What can we do when our spouse is particularly focused on work?
Understand and support
It’s good to have aspirations, a career, and aspirations, and we should be proud to have such a lover. Just because your spouse is focused on his/her career doesn’t mean he/she doesn’t love you. He/she is fighting for a better family life and the other spouse should show understanding and support to the greatest extent possible. The other spouse should show maximum understanding and support when he/she is having a hard time, and share the joy when he/she is successful.
Make a marital “covenant”
It is not advisable to forget family responsibilities for the sake of career. You can make a “covenant” to clarify your responsibilities to your family, such as one partner taking on more chores, having to do things together, and so on. Agree on the family development plan and then work together. The efforts can be different, the husband may be more outside the fight, the wife is more “logistical support”. And vice versa.
Don’t forget your role as a “husband” or “wife.
In the company, you are the director, the boss, but at home, you are the “husband” or “wife”, to do the “husband” or “wife” responsibility. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
There is a story about former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher: One day, Mrs. Thatcher came home and knocked on the door for her husband to answer. Her husband asked, “Who is knocking at the door?” The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re getting into. But after waiting for half a day, her husband did not open the door, so she knocked again. Her husband asked, “Who’s that?” The first time she answered, “Your wife,” and within seconds her husband opened the door with a smile on his face.
Friendship or marriage, which is more important
Wife’s view: After marriage, he still likes to hang out with his “friends”, either drinking or playing pool.
They’re not the only ones who are interested in the world.
Husband’s view: Getting married doesn’t mean I have to cut off my friends, I’m already eating and sleeping together, can’t I spend some time with my friends? The world is a very colorful place, and even though marriage is a more important part of life, people form relationships with other people in society outside of their spouses. For young people, this is especially true.
Getting to know his/her friends
Having a group of mutual friends can be very helpful in maintaining family relationships. Do you know his/her friends? Do you know what they do together on a regular basis? If you are unsure about each other and want to be with each other, why not get involved in his/her facebook and become friends with more people. The fact that he/she is good with his/her friends does not mean that friends are more important than lovers. He/she must have something in common with his/her friends, otherwise they wouldn’t be friends.
Moderate distance
Couples should each keep a piece of free space in their hearts to move around. No one should try to dig in and transform the other, but try to adapt to each other and allow each other to have an independent personality, a unique individuality and a moderately free circle of life. “A small goodbye is better than a new marriage”, said the truth.