Women are always in longing for love, and as soon as they meet the man they imagine, they fall in regardless. Women, this is a passion, it is not love. Please distinguish between the two, passion is just a component of love, don’t let passion blind you and miss out on the right love for you.
Taking passion for love is a mistake that women of any age can make.
Miss Qiao, who just experienced a heartfelt but uncomfortable love. She is 32 years old, and two years ago, just as she and her then-boyfriend were preparing to get married, she had the chance to meet Ferro, six years younger than her, and life has been very different ever since.
Fei Luo was only 24 years old, sunny and handsome, is Miss Qiao’s wedding house soft decoration designer, the day we met, is Qiao and boyfriend together to see him, did not feel anything special at the time, and then the boyfriend unit always arranged for him to travel, Miss Qiao had to deal with their own The house decoration, so there was a lot of time to communicate with Ferro alone.
They often meet in the cafe below Miss Qiao’s flat, and Qiao is often late because he is busy at work, and Fei Luo just waits quietly, drinking the ever-present Qimen red tea, which Fei Luo says suits him, with a little bitterness. More and more topics, from house decoration to the past college days, and even their first love, Fei Luo everything and Joe speak, sometimes, two days without seeing, Joe still miss him. The first time he came, he brought a small gift to Joe, because he was a soft decorator, and the gadgets were always new and thoughtful.
Once, Miss Qiao’s unit issued movie tickets for Hollywood’s “The Day After Tomorrow,” and how she wished her boyfriend would come back and watch a movie with her, but the boy was very sensible and worked first. Miss Qiao’s boyfriend and her long-running relationship for eight years, the family introduced, belonged to the right family, quite a good man, is the kind of science and technology, down-to-earth but also wooden, in love for eight years almost did not buy her any gifts, never remember Joe’s birthday, but also rarely say sweet words, sometimes, Miss Qiao will be nonsense, this life will have to follow a wood-like man’s life, quite miserable. It so happened that Fei Luo came to text: “Sister, what is busy?” Qiao smiled and replied, “Waiting for someone to watch a movie!”
That night, they went to see “The Day After Tomorrow” together, a disaster movie, and every time the flood came on the screen, Ferro would considerately half lean on Joe, he knew what women needed, and Joe felt a warmth in his heart. The film ended that day, and their relationship became very delicate, with Ferrell often sending swoon-worthy text messages: “If the Antarctic melts and we’re not together, wait for me, I’ll come to you, just like the father in The Day After Tomorrow!” “Have you eaten yet, the air is full of your shadow!” “Today’s design chart went especially well, sister want a reward, meet me, really miss you!”
This went on for a month and a half, and finally one night, in Ferro’s car, two people had something that shouldn’t have happened, and everything was quiet, and Joe was in tears, what to do what to do? Fero hugged Joe and said, “Baby, I really love you, I will marry you, let’s be together!”
Jo struggled for a long time, knowing that she was six years older than Ferro and that everything seemed that unreliable, but she really loved the feeling of love that Ferro gave her, the feeling of being cared for all the time. Overwhelmed by passion, she broke up with her ex-boyfriend amidst unanimous opposition from her family and friends, and began the first blast of love of her life.
Two years later, Ferro and Joe were still together, but Ferro became as mute as his ex-boyfriend, rarely communicating with Joe, and when they got home the two would each go online, sometimes without saying a word for days. In two years, Joe had three miscarriages for him and his health became very bad. But after three hospitalizations Ferro became more impatient than ever, complaining why women don’t protect themselves. Ferro never mentions marriage, saying he is still young and doesn’t want to be trapped by it, but Joe is almost 33 years old.
Last week, they broke up, both calmly, and Joe said she didn’t regret it because she finally felt what love was, but just felt a little out of touch. Her words made my heart so sore. Passion always blinds women.
This is a typical story of being blinded by passion. Why was Jo so desperate to be with Ferro in the first place? She thought that the kind of man who could do what she wanted to do with her, who could bring her passion, that was love. So she gave everything for that.
We are not saying that all men who bring you feelings of passion are the Fero of the story, nor are we denying that women need passion. In fact, even men also need passion. When two people are together, they also need passion. What we are talking about is not to let the momentary passion overwhelm your mind. For example, people who are on fire should not eat spicy food. If you eat spicy food when you are on fire, it will lead to a sore throat and even dryness and mute. If it’s a time when you’re not on fire, of course you can enjoy it.
Passion is an emotion of high intensity but short duration; it is a fierce, rapid burst, and short-lived emotion such as ecstasy, anger, fear, despair, and so on. After it is satisfied, it ceases to exist. You no longer desire it. In other words, it is a cumulative outburst of people’s long unfulfilled demands for something in real life. When unfulfilled, it reflects to people the feeling of great longing, the feeling of having to be satisfied, the feeling of being suffocated if not satisfied, or even the inability to think rationally. After getting satisfied, you can calm down and go back to your usual state of analysis. This is why many people will make decisions in the heat of passion that they wouldn’t normally make.
Love includes passion, such as when you first fall in love, or on your honeymoon, which is a time when you are in the throes of passion. But passion is only a component of love, love in life shows the most or a fine line. The ultimate qualities of love are uniqueness, permanence, unhappiness in sweetness, and sweetness in unhappiness. These are things that don’t quite fit with passion.
If the conditions are there, when something is very much desired, it is better to satisfy it. If it can’t be satisfied, then it’s good to divert your attention. It is important to know that passion and momentary longing is nothing more than the surface, in essence, it may be another emotional emotion that is not cathartic, and it is a way to address it from the source. After the temporary satisfaction or suppression, it is possible to analyze the current situation sensibly and know what you want without being blinded by passion.
Women are a little crazier about passion than men, so when it comes to running your own relationship, choose a man who is right for you and don’t get easily blinded by passion and miss out on the right love for you.