Can you upgrade your relationship luck by just talking? It’s true! If you pay careful attention to the following 7 pitfalls and improve your conversation skills from the inside out, you can really talk your way out of a sweet relationship!
1. Over-selling yourself.
Test: Try not saying the word “I” when you’re talking and see how long you can hold out.
Everyone likes to talk about themselves, so sometimes it’s a good idea to give others a chance to talk about it, be a good listener, and not sell yourself short.
The first thing you can do to get people to talk openly and without fear is to prove that you are approachable enough to improve your impression in other people’s minds. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2. Talk about what you’re proud of when the TA is in pain and helpless.
Everyone wants others to empathize with them when they are helpless and sad, to get comfort and encouragement to fill their energy loss. Don’t assume that an upbeat atmosphere at all times can diffuse someone’s sadness, so remember not to gloat about your own joyful events and send thoughtful care for the other person, which is invaluable warmth to the TA.
3. Use a reprimanding tone to talk about others.
The most annoying “comfort” is old-fashionedness and self-righteousness, so don’t use a reprimanding tone to teach others in a relationship. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Trying to put yourself in his shoes and understanding what he feels and knows will help you learn to see the world through other people’s eyes and be more open-minded.
4. Make rude gestures when talking.
Don’t have flashy and excessive gestures during the conversation. We don’t necessarily want to be demure and virtuous quiet ladies, but flashy gestures don’t add gravitas to your conversation. Think of conversation as singing, let the words pour out like fluid notes, with rich and interesting vocabulary and language organization, and your words will really be heard.
5. Focus on the individual and leave others out.
People who are commanding and popular tend to be people who take care of others! Such people will have the interests of others at heart and will take care of others’ feelings at all times. If you want to be liked, you have to remember to appreciate the feelings of others!
6. Interrupt people at random.
Even if you have something urgent to say, be considerate of the feelings of others, especially when they are talking, speaking, or talking to third parties, and it is rude to interrupt them. It’s a good idea to be patient and let the ongoing conversation finish in full before you speak.
7. Reveal your scars.
Deliberately uncovering someone’s shortcomings is as awkward as hooking up a stocking. Finding a like-minded confidant or best friend, you can chat freely in the sky, but intimacy is often more likely to bring harm, and rubbing salt in each other’s wounds is not something a best friend would do. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.