On April 2, 2005, the day I remarried with my husband, Cheng Ze, we invited some good friends to our home for a drink. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public. After the divorce, I realized how important she is in my heart, I once thought I would lose her for life ……” Cheng Ze’s voice was a bit choked up, and the atmosphere at the table began to gaze up, I quietly pounded him a little, he then came to his senses: “Good thing I turned in time. “The good thing is that I turned in time and will cherish her and love her well in the future. Come on, for my happiness with Xiao Ke, cheers!”
This night, an excited Cheng Ze drank a lot of wine, and when I sent my friends away, Cheng Ze embraced me and said, “Honey, tonight I can finally get a solid sleep.” I gently stroked his face, which had become thin, and my thoughts went back to the storms we had gone through ……
Remember when we were newlyweds, although Cheng Ze and I both had strong personalities and often clashed on some minor matters, it did not affect the beauty of the new marriage. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. We both know that this is not good, but when there is a conflict, it is still difficult to control our emotions.
Though our deep emotions brought us back together again and again, this long-suppressed anger culminated in a change of heart that eventually led to the dissolution of the marriage.
The cause of the divorce also began with a male friend of mine from college.
His name is Lin Xiao, and he is the boyfriend of my best friend Du Yue from college. I had a very deep relationship with them. However, shortly after I got married, Lin Xiao and Du Yue’s relationship went to a dead end. Du Yue asked Lin Xiao to study in Canada with her, but Lin Xiao, who had already made some achievements at home, did not want to give up her career. The stubborn Du Yue was adamant to break up with her, and I had to intercede in their relationship, but eventually it failed. Lin Xiao, who was suffering from the pain of losing her love, naturally took me, her best friend, as the object of confession. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
That night, Lin Xiao called me, and it just so happened that her husband answered the phone, and Lin Xiao was not very familiar with him. The husband was full of suspicion and handed the phone to me. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. But when I said I wanted to go out for a while, my husband disagreed: “What can’t we talk about on the phone, we have to go out!” I shot back at him, “You’re a pussy, you like to take care of everything.” The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services.
I had a hard time calming down Lin Xiao, who was full of sorrow. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. The first time I saw the company, I was able to get a good look at it.
The next day, my husband could not resist my teasing, and once again his smile came to his face and his anger seemed to subside.
The next day, my husband couldn’t help but smile once again, and his anger seemed to subside. But the storm soon swept over again.
Lin Xiao gradually came out of the pain of the breakup with Du Yue and looked cheerful. The company’s main focus was on the development of a new product that would be a new product. The two of us treat each other as good friends, and no one has ever had any bad thoughts, so I am open and honest in my dealings with him, and never avoid my husband.
His husband didn’t see it that way. He was furious about our relationship, and we had many arguments about it. That night, I went straight from work to a party that Lin Xiao had with a friend and played until late. When I got home, Cheng Ze was sitting gloomily on the sofa waiting for me, and as soon as he saw me enter, he stared at me and asked, “Why are you so crazy until so late?”
When I heard the word “crazy,” I was instantly enraged, married and unable to have normal friendships? The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
His husband stood up abruptly and shouted at me with a red face, “Do you want to fill that gap now that Du Yue is gone? The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market. ?” “Good friends aren’t that close!” The implication was that I had done something unseemly behind his back, and the humiliation of being wrongly accused made me, who has a strong personality, cry out in pain all of a sudden.
This night, we argued until the early hours of the morning, and finally both of us were tired, and my voice became hoarse from arguing and crying, while Cheng Ze did not have the slightest intention of admitting his fault, sitting on the sofa and smoking one cigarette after another. Suddenly, he extinguished his cigarette and said, “This life can not go on, it is better to divorce.” The first time I heard this, I immediately shot back: “If you want to leave, you can leave, I can still live without you!”
That’s how our marriage came to an end. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good understanding of what you’re doing.
After the divorce, I moved out and rented a small house. The first time, I was immersed in the hatred of Cheng Ze, hating his unreasonable and unwarranted suspicion, hating his incomprehensibility. I was thinking, “Heck, I don’t need to depend on you, Cheng Ze, to live, I’m living a better life without you!
But it was not to be, and I did not live a better life outside of my marriage. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market. Every day when I came home from work, I went back to my lonely and cold rental house, cooked and ate alone, then watched TV and slept, and the tasteless life made me constantly recall the good old days with Cheng Ze, and even my quarrels with him became warm in my memories. I gradually calm down, repeatedly thinking about the root cause of the failure of marriage with Cheng Ze, where the fault lies? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
But the marriage was lost after all, and my awakening seemed late.
The first time I saw a woman, I was in the middle of a conversation. Did he remarry?
That day, I could no longer bear the bitterness in my heart and asked Lin Xiao out, crying about what happened to me, and Lin Xiao realized that he had become the “culprit” in the breakup of my marriage with Cheng Ze.
I don’t know what Lin Xiao and Cheng Ze met to talk about, but the next night, Cheng Ze came to my rental house. The first time I saw the company, I didn’t even dare to recognize it. Cheng Ze said to me sincerely: “Lin Xiao approached me for a deep talk. These few months after the divorce, I really live like a year, I feel like I really can’t live without you. Honey, let’s remarry!” At that moment, I cried tears of joy.
After the change of divorce, we are once again heading towards marriage. But, once again, walking into marriage with Cheng Ze, I didn’t make the same mistakes again. We communicate regularly to understand each other’s true thoughts, and the atmosphere at home is much more harmonious and pleasant than before the divorce. What is even more remarkable is that Lin Xiao has become a mutual friend of my husband and me.
The other night, after my husband removed my clothes, he gently embraced me and whispered, “I was not nice in the past, so don’t take it personally. The fact is, couples should put down their masks and take off their masks and be naked from the inside out.”
“No shame in that.”
“No shame, what?”
I quietly reached over and turned off the bedside lamp ……
Ed: A famous American expert on marriage once said, “The hardest part of marriage is that it is a partnership business, and only two people doing well at the same time can rise to the top. and support each other in order to rise to the top.”
Wang Hai tiling, author of the sensational “Chinese Divorce,” said the same thing from the opposite side: both parties are definitely to blame for the problems in a marriage.
So, reading Xiao Ke’s divorce experience, it is easy to see that her marriage is disintegrating, and the trigger is undoubtedly Cheng Ze’s unwarranted suspicion, but it is also unfair to blame him for it. The lack of communication between the two is the root of the problem – as the sociologist Ledley once said: poor communication is one of the major reasons for breaking up a good couple.
“To run a good marriage requires a great deal of wisdom and confusion.” The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The more tightly you hold on to your marriage, the more sand will leak out of your hand.
In our lives, it is not uncommon for unwarranted suspicion and lack of communication to create a marriage breakup without a third party. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product. However, the more common ending is a marriage that should not have broken up. The first thing you should do is to think about how to avoid the damage of suspicion and mistrust between couples.