My depression started after I had the baby. The family of in-laws were so well disguised before the marriage that they were naive and were fooled by some false appearances. I was so naive that I married my husband’s family without asking him for a penny.
My parents said they didn’t care about the bride price as long as their daughter was well off.
I think it’s a good idea for us to have a good family, but it’s only after a few years of marriage that I realized how ridiculous our family’s kindness was.
After that, I lived with my in-laws under one roof, and my husband’s family’s face was fully exposed.
Not long after the wedding, my husband’s family forced me to have children. I didn’t want to have children so early, but I finally gave in to the power of my husband’s family.
Later, I thought women would have to have children sooner or later, so why stir up the family atmosphere just for the sake of the sooner or later?
I think it’s a good idea to have a good idea of what to expect.
After I got pregnant, I was more reactive, and I was a bit picky, so my husband’s home cooking was not to my liking.
In the beginning, I made something I liked to eat, but then I slowly became the one who made all the meals for the family.
In fact, I’ve never done any housework since I was a kid. I’m also a post-80s, and my husband is also a post-80s, so most post-80s are a family, and my parents treat me like a jewel.
But after marrying my husband I had to cook for myself, and I had to do their family’s cooking. His parents put a lot of salt in their cooking and stir-frying, and I was too salty to eat because I talked to my husband, and then my mother-in-law said, “If you want to eat anything, do it yourself, you have everything. I had no choice but to do it myself. But my in-laws are going around in front of outsiders saying that I love to cook, and I’m speechless.
After marrying my husband, I realized that my husband’s family is run by my mother-in-law, and my father-in-law and husband have to listen to her.
At the beginning of the first six months of marriage are tolerated, probably because we are not familiar with each other, it is not good to show too much.
The first six months of the marriage were spent in a state of shock, sometimes yelling at 12 o’clock in the middle of the night, whenever she didn’t get her way.
So at home my husband has no opinion at all under her discipline.
My family is completely different from theirs, and my parents have respected my opinions since I was a child, so I was raised to be more assertive.
In this family, my mother-in-law also wants to control me, and she gets upset if I don’t do what she wants.
It didn’t show when I was pregnant, but it has been very obvious since the baby was born. Everything the baby feeds has to be done the way she wants and never listens to my ideas.
Even though I said I wanted it, my in-laws just listened to me and didn’t listen to me, they still did what they wanted.
I sometimes think, “Whose child is this?
After all this talk, what did my husband do? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Now when he is asked to watch the baby for five minutes, he either scolds or beats the baby up, and we have had many fights about it.
No matter what I say to my husband, he goes to his mother and complains, like a child who can’t grow up.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good time.
Now if it weren’t for the baby I would have divorced him, but the baby is still young and I can’t let go.
I don’t want to go home every day after work.
Depressed as hell!
I think it’s a good idea to have a good time.
Now my mind is in a mess and there are too many things to write about, so let’s write this today! After reading this can you help me with some ideas? What can I do to change my current situation?