My husband and I got married on January 1, 2010, when my mother-in-law and I had a house to ourselves. The house appliances are all mother-in-law metric system, when I married, my mother gave me 10,000 yuan and a full set of bedding, kitchen supplies, full of scenery!
After the wedding, my mother-in-law said she wanted us to eat together, I listened with a warm heart and always believed I had a good mother-in-law and had married a good family.
The first 6 months after the wedding (I am now working, the treatment is not bad), I have not been able to find a suitable job, so stay at home every day, these days, has been I cooked, my mother-in-law paid for the food, I also willingly, and then I and my husband’s new house utilities every month consciously to my mother-in-law, although she said not to, but I think, we should still bear part of the responsibility. So I insisted on giving it every month.
At the end of August, something came out of nowhere that really changed my mind about them and made me even less confident to go on.
On August 29th at lunch time, my father-in-law told me that he wanted to rent out the new room we got married in, in which all the appliances inside were also to be rented out, and I replied to him like this: I don’t really want to rent it because everything inside is new, and it’s not good to sleep some outsiders in our new room!
My mother-in-law got upset and kept asking me about it, so I had nothing to say.
The mother-in-law said: my son does not need to ask. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. I thought this would be the end of the story!
The 30th they didn’t mention it at all, and on the 31st, my father-in-law called me again and said he wanted to rent, and I didn’t know what to do, so I asked my husband to answer the phone.
Husband is probably having a hard time with this, or maybe he wants to rent it out too! The first thing I did was to get the money to pay for it. The money was given to me and my husband, but I really didn’t want to rent it, even if the money was given to me, so I didn’t say anything.
In the evening, my father-in-law called my parents to come over, which made me really confused, it doesn’t make sense! The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
This made me very sad, and the first thing my father-in-law, in front of my parents, said was: I signed the rental contract, so the house must be rented. I was very angry and excited to hear this.
Because they are the elders, I certainly can’t say anything about them, so I said my husband is incompetent and can’t even keep a home.
The mother-in-law, hearing this, said: My son is mine, what I say is what? I replied: Yes, he is your son, but he is also my husband.
Mother-in-law said: So what? If I’m not dead, he’s only mine to rule!
I can’t say anything after hearing this, and my husband is over there in pity, so I can’t say anything either!
My parents are sensible people and can only keep talking to me like this.
They are the only ones who can do anything about it.
Listening to this, I was crying, I kept scolding my husband for being useless, my parents kept persuading me, and finally this thing didn’t end well.
I’d like to make it clear that my husband and I are in the right family, and there is no difference between rich and poor.
I was very angry at my mother-in-law’s cannibalistic attitude, and my parents are sensible people, so they certainly won’t say anything about helping their daughter to get angry and force my mother-in-law to do anything.
After all, the money is given to us to rent out, and then I have to go to my mother-in-law’s place to eat and live, so we are not losing anything, but they are paying, but I do have reasons to disagree.
I don’t want to face them in my heart, I always feel that they are too bullying in their language, so please help to persuade me, let me think about it, let me feel relieved, let me have confidence to believe that they are for our own good, after all, my in-laws are still the people I want to get along with in the future.