I am 24 years old, and my family is a family of books. In the eyes of others, I am the kind of girl who is a lady of the house. I don’t see anything wrong with that comment, after all, it’s true.
My parents are both university teachers, and I grew up with a good education. I had thought that nothing would be difficult for me in this life, and I successfully passed the key secondary school, and then entered the university, and after graduation, I found a pretty good job. Under the protection of my family, I was always happy. There was only one thing that put me in a difficult situation – I never found a boyfriend. And I am a girl who is longing for love. I love fairy tales like Snow White, and I long to meet the Prince Charming of my life to live my life together romantically.
It went well for me along the way, and I was pursued by many boys from middle school on. In college I started to fall in love and every guy I met treated me well and treated me like a princess, while I always wanted a man who would give everything for me.
The first boyfriend was a college friend of mine. The two of us were both student council officers in school and have been dating a lot. Moreover, he is nearly one meter nine tall and sunny looking. For him, I have nothing to pick on. The first time I saw the company, I was able to get to know it.
“Shall we get married?” He said to me over dinner one time.
“Wait for me for three years, and in three years I’ll marry you.” He looked at me in astonishment and said with great effort why should we wait? Aren’t we good? I said, “I want to marry the man who waits for me until the end.” He shook his head and called me childish. A week later, he sent me a text message, “I love you very much, but with you I see no hope, let’s break up.” And with that he was gone.
Two years down the line, I’ve had seven boyfriends. Every man was scared away by my that, was I wrong? I just want to find a man who really loves me, is it so hard to wait for me? Are we not supposed to believe in love anymore or are we not supposed to believe in men? What should I do?
Pang Fengshan replied:
From your description, you are a person who likes to You are a person who likes to pursue perfection and is rather idealistic, but unfortunately life is not perfect. And, at the same time, you are also very careful and cautious, both longing for a Prince Charming around you and fearing that he will fly away and back out of the game.
I’m not sure if you’re dreaming too much of Snow White and making pretense, or if you’re just not strong enough on the inside to have the necessary confidence. The fact that you casually made a man wait for you for 3 years and scared away 7 boyfriends in 2 years because of a statement like yours has clearly proven you to be a failure, or at least shows that your charm is far less than the fear you cause in men.
If you love someone and want to start a relationship and want to move on to marriage, you should show your honesty, fall in love how you want, get married when you want, just go with the flow, and don’t try to set some kind of deadline. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Love should of course be believed, and so should men, but the caveat is that true love is created by mutual effort and dedication, not by years of waiting. True love does not need time length, some people may be a second to achieve marriage, while some people give her more than ten years of time, but also may not be able to walk into a happy marriage. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.