It has been three years since my husband and I met, met, fell in love, and got married. Before we got married, we had a lot of petty arguments between us, but our relationship never suffered because of the conflicts between the two of us, but since entering his home, everything has changed.
My husband and I met while working in Beijing, and when we fell in love, he was a very considerate man, so that I couldn’t see for a moment that he was a big boy spoiled by his mother who still can’t be weaned.
After returning to Wuhan with my husband, although we weren’t married, I was a foreigner and didn’t have a family here, so I stayed with them. When I entered his house, I realized that something was not normal.
One morning my mother-in-law got up quite early, and in a daze I thought she was going to exercise early, as usual.
I found out that she had gone to my husband’s bed and slept with him!
That was the first time in my life that I had ever seen anything like that, and it was so incredible that I was dumbfounded!
When I talked to my husband about it, he said I didn’t understand the heart of a mother.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good time.
I don’t know if my understanding is wrong. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I remember last year when my husband came back from Beijing and just walked in the door, my mother-in-law even kissed my husband, and I watched from the sidelines, it was really awkward.
In the evening when the family sat in the living room watching TV, my mother-in-law always sat next to my husband and sometimes put her legs on him.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good time.
I don’t want to hurt our relationship because of my mother-in-law, but every time we fight or have a cold war, eight out of ten times it’s because of my mother-in-law, and every time I back down to quell the war.
Husband is still working in the field and occasionally comes home, and his mother-in-law wants to spoil him to the sky, bringing the morning breakfast to the bedside for him to eat. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Can’t you get up and eat before you go to bed? I just want my husband to be independent, after all, he’s an adult now.
I can’t even say these thoughts, or my husband and I will have to fight again.
Usually my husband treats me well, but he just can’t touch the fucking thing, and when there is a problem, he must take the fucking side and blame me.
My meet and greet, she gave it away
My mother-in-law not only dominantly dotes on my husband, but is very strong in controlling me.
I think it’s a good thing that the company’s family is so well organized, and that it never thinks for itself.
It’s just that this kind of care is too much, and sometimes I really can’t stand it. I have to involve her in everything I do, and I have to listen to her on everything, and I can’t have any objections, otherwise I will upset her, and the consequences will be unthinkable.
When my husband and I got married, she was doing everything. Although, every time I said I should pick what I like, but every time I bought something back she was not satisfied. I thought it was ridiculous at the time, not knowing if it was me getting married or her getting married!
The time I bought a four-piece bedding set, my father-in-law took one look at it and said it didn’t look good.
This is the first time I’ve ever seen a woman with a new wife, and I’m sure she’ll be able to get a new one. That tone was completely unquestionable. The company’s main goal is to make sure that the company’s products are in good condition.
I usually buy my in-laws clothes and food to honor them, but I have never seen them smile with satisfaction. I remember the first time I went up to his house, I bought a woolen sweater for each of my in-laws.
Probably for the first time, my mother-in-law didn’t say anything fussy on the surface, but I never saw her wear it.
I think it’s a good idea for us to have a good time.
I was very uncomfortable at the time, after all, it was my first gift to her.
Come to this family, I am really physically and mentally exhausted
Lately I have been getting a lot of headaches, dizziness, blurry eyes, and sometimes I feel like I’m going to faint.
I was a cheerful and lively person, and I did everything with a big smile.
The first time I saw this, I was nervous about what I was doing at home, as long as my mother-in-law was around, and I was worried about what I was doing wrong and upsetting her.
The other day, I came home from work and was sweating. I wanted to heat up the water heater and take a hot shower, but my mother-in-law wouldn’t let me, saying there was leftover water in the boiling water bottle, so don’t waste electricity! I had no choice but to do as I was told. The water wasn’t very hot, so it got a little cold when I was washing, and I ended up catching a cold.
Last December, I came back from dinner with a colleague and it was 9:00 p.m. My mother-in-law insisted that I wash my clothes, and I didn’t finish until 12:00 p.m., and then I also caught a cold. I’ve had more than one similar incident, and I’m really physically and mentally exhausted from coming to this family.
I grew up in a particularly democratic family. My parents were both cadres, and they taught me from an early age to do things on my own. I started learning to cook when I was 7, and did my own laundry in elementary school; I lived in junior high school and took care of everything myself away from my parents. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
A few months ago, a colleague said he would come to my house to eat my Sichuan food and bring the kids to play, but he never did.
They were not able to do so because I mentioned it to my mother-in-law, and she did not agree, saying that it would be very disturbing and make a mess in the house.
I really don’t understand why she doesn’t know anything about people. What’s the point of having a family without friends at home?
Yesterday, a co-worker happened to be on duty and called to say that she would bring her son over for the afternoon, and I agreed. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem.
In fact, I knew she was looking for a fight and wanted her permission for everything. I had no choice but to go out and invite my colleagues to dinner as I didn’t want them to come and embarrass me.
She ignores me for a day because of small things
Since we’ve been married for 6 months, the same thing has happened over and over again, and I feel like I’ve been pushed to the edge of the cliff by them in my marriage. My mother-in-law is still so strong, and my husband is still so foolish and filial.
My parents-in-law used to be ordinary workers. My mother-in-law has always been very strong at home, and my father-in-law listens to her on everything. Yes, on the surface, this family mother-in-law worries the most pay the most, but I think a family chores are secondary, important people each have to have self, in their own home to have a sense of relief and comfort. I really want to say to my mother-in-law: can you not be so forceful? Even if I say and do the wrong thing, can you be more tolerant of the younger generation as an elder?
I really wanted to get along with her, but her personality and temperament put me off! I have repeatedly backed off and tolerated it, which didn’t make her feel bad, but rather took it for granted.