I think I’m really close to a breakdown right now. I’ve been married for two years and have a daughter, but I’m really having a hard time getting along with my in-laws, who are the kind of people who are very forceful and take charge of everything. The first thing I do every day when I get back from work is to hurry up and mop my sister-in-law’s room. Sometimes I’m too tired from work I just mop my own room casually, but I wouldn’t dare not mop my sister-in-law’s room clean because my mother-in-law would definitely check her daughter’s room.
I really haven’t been happy since I got married, and my husband is the kind of person who doesn’t care about anything, and he doesn’t dare to say anything when her mother scolds me like that. Now she is really getting too much, see how I scolded without making a sound, and began to move to curse, I am really about to break down, I really can not accept her kind of scolding method with sexual organs.
I’ve moved out now, and at almost New Year’s she cursed me again because of my daughter, and she cursed all kinds of foul language, and I really didn’t put up with it anymore this time, and she cursed me for being black-hearted, and purposely made my daughter cry, and I was really so wrong, and I was brewing milk for my daughter to drink. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public, such as the Internet, the Internet, and the Internet.
I really didn’t put up with it this time, two years of tolerance let me vent out in pain, I also scolded her back and told her I was going to harm my daughter, I put up with it enough, I shouldn’t have entered this doorway in the first place. I also told her I want a divorce I never want to move like this again to give her scolding. My husband was in his room playing on his computer and didn’t say a word.
Her mother then pointed at me and scolded me well told me to leave, but this grandchild is hers not allowed me to take away, and then came to hug my daughter, I was also very impulsive then hugged back my daughter in a hurry, she saw me dare to grab her grandchild then slapped me in the face, I grew up all my parents have never hit I, what time they say I am good, never spare me, but at that time my mother-in-law hit me when I did not cry, two years of verbal abuse has deeply broken my heart, and so I left the family.
Unfortunately after I left the house I found out I was pregnant again, this time I really didn’t know what to do, my parents advised me to get rid of it because my daughter was only one year old, she was born by cesarean section, and this family should not stay, finally I called my husband
My husband meant to stay, if the doctor said there is no danger, so I went to the hospital with my husband, the doctor said that generally domestic are conservative to more than two years, but abroad on a year can be regenerated, the doctor said I do not say that there must be a danger.
My husband also heard, his conclusion is that since the doctor called whatever we want, it is not necessarily dangerous, all he wants me to have this BB, he all want to have a son, their family is so serious patriarchal, just because I have a female my mother-in-law will be difficult for me in every way The first time I had a son, my husband said we had a son and maybe his parents would stop looking at me like this every day.
But in the end, I was persuaded by my mother’s family to abort the baby, and my husband refused to go with me so I went with my mom. In fact, I know in my heart that my husband is the kind of person who is spoiled by his in-laws and does not know how to care for others, and he feels that others should care for him, but I still love him and want to let go but always have feelings and do not want to give up. My in-laws actually want me to leave so badly because I know they want his son to remarry over a wife, this way the birth of an additional child does not have to be fined a penny, my husband city account to be fined more than 200,000.
I really think I’m too miserable to meet a family like this, too unqualified to scold me at every turn, but also to call my parents, my parents are afraid of them, my husband’s family is really weird, they have not given anything to my parents, just net want my parents to give them blah blah blah. The first thing you need to do is to give them something or other.
My daughter went back to my parents’ house for the first time, and when she came back she gave a red packet and nothing else, my mother-in-law called to scold my mother for this, and my mother was very angry, and my mother said she had never heard anyone say that they had to give pigs and chickens to see their grandchildren for the first time, and that they had to give a pig to live. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get into the car. I really know I can’t have this marriage, but I don’t want to give up my husband, my husband does not dare to resist but the fault is not his. Once we wanted to move out to live, but my mother-in-law firmly opposed, she said she had a son, where the son went, she followed to where, I really have no way. I wanted to die.
Reply from Autumn Heart:
Your in-laws are like that. You can’t change it, and neither can your husband, so being married to this man means that you can’t escape your relationship with them one day in your marriage.
If your husband can have an independent personality or love you more, even if he can’t fight with his mother for you, it would be good to at least take you out of the family to reduce the strife you have with his mother. It’s a shame that a man who grew up being overindulged by his parents is a man of his age and a child at heart, not capable of being independent, much less capable of loving you and helping you face family problems together.
So I can only tell you that staying in this marriage means you will keep repeating this life until your mother-in-law grows old, or you can’t stand it yourself, or in many, many years your husband grows up to give you an independent home, will you? How long can you stand it? The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the website.
The so-called personality determines fate, if you do not want this situation, you have to think about how to grow your own personality, if you are not weak, even if you do not divorce, there are still many ways to live, you can also go to strengthen their own reality (such as economic) strength, and strive for a position in the family. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Think about it, tears won’t help you get out of this mess, don’t think about having another child for a while, if you have a child from such a marriage, you’ll harm yourself and your child. If people are not even afraid to die, they still lack the power to solve real problems?