My girlfriend and I were in the same class and graduated last July, as we didn’t find a job together. The main reason is either this unit is not good enough or that unit doesn’t want her, and in the end we still don’t have a good plan for our future.
In the end, she went back to her home county to work in the electricity bureau, and I stayed in a departmental institution in the provincial capital with no establishment. 1000 salary, no house and no car.
We are 2 hours away from each other by car. Now her parents are very anxious about her marriage and want to find a good boyfriend locally to marry, and she herself is slowly getting that idea. On one side is the pressure from her parents, on the other side is still a bit attached to me, mainly because she is very angry at the thought that we didn’t plan our future properly in our senior year, so now she doesn’t want to be with me.
But she’s also conflicted. Her family is okay, an only child, and her parents are both in the government sector. At the same time, her parents are super opposed to us, saying that I have no money, no house work and not together. Dislike my people are not good. But we both really love each other, just too much pressure on her, slowly transformed, today also discussed the issue, she said she was 23 this year, can not afford to wait, girls are different from boys. She said she didn’t want to be with me anymore and told me to go slowly and get stronger.
A long distance relationship breaks up and ends, is it really impossible to have a happy ending? But I really like her, without her I have no energy to do anything. I want to quit my job here and go to their county to find something to do, but she doesn’t want me to go, saying that this basically ruins my future. But do I really want to give up on her? I’m conflicted myself, if I risk going to her county to find something to do, it’s not a good thing, because I don’t think I’ll stay in the county for very long, my conditions are not suitable for marriage at all, she doesn’t agree, and her parents don’t agree.