To say that my ex-girlfriend and I, whom I fell in love with in college, were together for four years and lived together for three years in college. Together we feel particularly good, in school is a model couple, others envy our feelings. Many people may say that nowadays college students are living together, but I am serious, she is still an uncompromising virgin, not I can not, because she said no she is afraid, I love her to the extent that I do not want to hurt her any. So I’ve been putting up with it, sleeping in the same bed for three years preserving an intact virgin, after all, it’s been a long time, I’ll ask when it’s okay, but I never force it, she’s telling me, wait a little longer, wait a little longer we broke up.
To her you could say I was pampered like a baby, every day as long as she was happy, do anything, all her friends envied her, then we graduated, I stayed in the school city to work, she went home, we kept in touch as well, she said before going to bed someone specially I told her that I would go to her city after the year to develop, just to marry her.
Four years of not getting her, talking to friends, they all said that woman should not really love you, otherwise there is no way she would not give you. However, as a man, I also many times need some kind of life. But it never did. I met another girl after graduation when I was hanging out with my friends, and because of impulse, because I hadn’t been, I cheated on her. This girl was very nice to me, no matter how much I hurt her, but she was always there for me to be difficult. I asked her why and she told me because she wanted to marry me.
The back story is long, in short I broke up with my girlfriend and the last thing I said to her was, please don’t ever show up again, I hate you. Instead, she told me: husband, you are the most loved in my life. I really can’t understand why love me not to give me. It’s true that I hate her now, but it’s hard for me to think about her every day. I asked her why she never wanted to give it to me, and she said because she thought it would make our relationship last longer, and she thought that I would leave her anytime I was good.
She said I was good because I wasn’t very good looking but okay, could do magic and dance, and had won top spots nationally in dancing. This is not to learn to pick up girls is out of their own hobby. The personality is also, more friends, in not talking to her before, there are indeed some women around actively pursuing me, and better than her long, which is the reason she is afraid. My head is in a mess every day now, I don’t know what to do, I’m in a very annoyed mood …… who can enlighten me.
Because I don’t want my friends around me to know about these things and have been suppressing them inside. So here it is, asking for help, wanting to go to a therapist and being embarrassed.
Blogger Analysis:
The last thing I said to her was, please never show up in front of my eyes again, I hate you. Instead, she told me, “Honey, you’re the love of my life. — His girlfriend is a vampire, a pest, and a big liar.
The vampire, needless to say, enjoyed his devotion for four whole years without compensation. The vermin is because she clearly does not love him and still claims to love him. It goes without saying that the king of lies, in order to make him die for her and not have sex with him, she lies often and logically, exploiting his misconceptions and human weaknesses, not to be disbelieved by him.
He is completely vulnerable to her, slave and master. When he said the words to hate her she also hated him very much, but she had to say, “Husband, you are the most loved in my life.” The purpose is twofold: 1. to continue to hang on to him; 2. to get back at him and make him pay for his words. She knew that such words would control him, it had been tried and tested for the past four years, and she wanted him to torture himself, and to continue to be obsessed with her. Sure enough, he was miserable and came online to confide in her for help.
His problem is that he is a worshipful psychosexual character, he upholds traditional notions of mutual fidelity and exclusive marriage, and he is a virgin fetishist. What’s most disgraceful about him is that he’s also scandalous — “This girl is so good to me that no matter how much I hurt her, she stays with me hard.” — he took out all the pain his girlfriend had caused him on this girl.
His self-reporting hid the fact that because he caught evidence that she had fallen in love with someone else who was already sleeping with someone else, and she admitted it, that’s why she said she was his favorite. There is a comparison that makes the most. She does not exist before going to college is not a virgin possibility, if she is afraid to let him know that she is not a virgin and break up with her, then living together for three years she will have pain and anguish, will not be so reckless to use him to enjoy his good. There is only one explanation, she does not love him, just needs him to meet her to be a little daughter little princess oedipal type of sexual psychology, she and his so-called love, the heart has always been another person.
The poison between lovers must be mutual, and she is poisoned, she is dependent and cunning, so she can’t get true love, she gets his good without giving, God will make her give more, and what awaits her is to be abused by another man, may she be lucky The first time I saw her, I found a man without a mother, otherwise his mother would have abused her too.