My boyfriend and I have been together for ten years, and we have been in love since we were in college. We are a model couple in the eyes of our friends, but only the people involved know the good and bad of our love life.
For example, my boyfriend likes to pick on me, and all my strengths are weaknesses in his eyes, or at least that’s what he says.
I could have started my own business with my boyfriend after grad school, but I chose to become a college teacher because I didn’t have to sit in shifts and I had summer and winter vacations. The job was decent and easy in other people’s eyes, but in my boyfriend’s eyes it was low-paying and tiring. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
My boyfriend is an independent designer, but his income is quite unstable, sometimes a single business to eat a year, sometimes a year will not get any money, because of this I decided to find a stable and guaranteed job, understandable, right?
Also, my boyfriend always thinks my breasts are too big, I’m embarrassed, I don’t understand, I don’t understand, is it wrong to be fuller? “
They’re not really fat. In fact, I’m not much fat, six-foot-three weighing about 100 pounds, and the meat is growing in the place where it should be, and I’m quite proud of it, wearing clothes that also hold up, to his mouth is as fat as a pig. He is relatively thin, in his eyes, this height, 80 something to ninety is better.
I asked him how come you didn’t see me say I was fat before, and he said he didn’t dare to say it before he pursued me, which was funny. The girl is more mindful of this, and to be honest I have been brainwashed to think that the less meat the better. Flat chest is the most beautiful. I always feel like I don’t look good in anything, and I don’t dare to dance Latin anymore.
The most outrageous thing is that one time when I mentioned the matter of marriage, he suddenly said that when I lost weight to below 90 pounds, I would get married, otherwise I would not, seriously! The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. I spoke with my girlfriend about this, she said the next time he said so, you said you then grow five centimeters higher we will get married, not long not to close! (He is shorter) I just laughed bitterly, there is no need for his brain to be unclear I also have to learn from him.
In addition, I’m cheerful and talkative because of my profession, which is something my boyfriend can’t stand, he thinks I talk too much.
In fact, there are many good things about him, he is independent and sensible, he is responsible, he is devoted to me, he doesn’t have any bad habits, and he is already very good, but when we live together, there will be bumps and bruises. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Pang Fengshan replied:
How can I say this? For a person who likes to be critical, we should look at it two ways.
According to your description, your boyfriend is a bit too much. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The good thing is, there is no big principle between you, so you can’t break up because of this little thing.
To be honest, your outpouring is just a momentary vent, and you don’t see that you mean to break up, after a vomit, but you still can’t forget how good he is, which means you love him. If this is the case, you’ll have to give in, compromise to him, according to his requirements to improve themselves, to see if they can do. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Also, if he picks on you that much, you can take stock of his shortcomings and show him how he reacts. The reason for this is that no one is perfect, and if you don’t give him a clear point, he will play dumb!
Lastly, a small piece of advice for you: make sure you work out this conflict before you get married, don’t bring the problem into the marriage to solve it, then it will probably be an obstacle and a lot of trouble.