My boyfriend and I have known each other for over 2 years and have been officially dating for over 1 year, but in his mind he always feels good about his ex-girlfriend.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good relationship.
Saying that they were studying in two different provinces at the time, she wrote him two letters a week (communication tools were not popular in the mid 90s), saying that her parents were against them and she turned against them to be with him. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of people who are interested in the future of the company.
She said she was working in Guangdong every six months to go to his school to see him, earn a little money to spend together, he was still in college, she graduated two years earlier, said I was with him rarely spend money, basically he spent, but his monthly income of 10,000, I 2,000, he spent a lot of money on his own, I have to save money to send home to build a house, I am also their own food and drink, only with him in the
They are the only ones who have a lot of money to spend.
She says she is hardworking and loves to do laundry and mopping, but I am lazy and don’t like to do laundry and mopping, but I do laundry only once a week, and I mop the floor when it is dirty, but not every day, I have to work every day, and he is a freelancer and works from home.
Saying they borrowed money to live when they were working together, she and he suffered a lot of hardship, saying he and I didn’t suffer much. What do you mean you didn’t suffer anything?
They were living on borrowed money because both of them were looking for jobs and they didn’t find any, so they borrowed money when they ran out of money, and then he paid it back himself; his business is bad now, and he doesn’t earn enough money to spend on himself in a month, and for two months, we ate white porridge for a few days, and we waited until I got paid to have money to eat.
She said she had come along with him for so many years and was very strong, saying she never asked him to go with her to do anything, such as shopping ah errands ah, he volunteered to go with her, saying it was the right thing to do, but said I always force him to go shopping with me ah and so on, is very reluctant to accompany me to the meaning of it.
In short, he always said his ex-girlfriend was good, but of course he also said she was bad, for example, that she was grumpy, bad for his parents, didn’t want to work and always wanted to rely on him to earn money, and had no plan for spending money. They broke up after 12 years together, and his ex-girlfriend was adamant about the split and kicked him out.
Today we had a fight because he talked about what he used to accompany his ex-girlfriend to do, and then said how good his ex-girlfriend’s former company was a big group, and then said to me: that company is good, right? You have not been in that good company, right? It is the big people who can be in that good company.
Once I heard that, I got mad and punched him hard in the head and kicked him a few times, then he told me he was going to hit me if I hit him like that again in the future, and then he went out.
Is this normal, is he still in love with his ex-girlfriend, does he not love me at all, what should I do?