I’m a chef and I’m 23 years old. My first girlfriend, who lived with me for three years and gave me a son, then she came home and her mother and aunt didn’t want her to stay with me, then she married someone else. Recently returned with her husband and son, and contacted me, said to invite me to dinner, for this I tangled. I think at first I have eaten for her what suffering, but I am good to her she does not seem to remember at all, and said not to contact me not to contact, less than six months apart and others married, and soon gave birth to a child, our children were born due to the lack of conditions to raise, given to others for adoption. In such a context, if we meet how awkward it is, although also feel that there is no longer much need, but I still want to ask her, what is the purpose of the aliyah, are so still in contact with me, is the residual love or what?
I met her when she was a student and I was working in a restaurant. A friend of mine is her godbrother, we both surfed the Internet, I saw her tiktok number from my friend, I added her, and so we began an online relationship. We met after two months to determine the relationship, I gave up the hotel job for her, to her part-time job, it was January 3, 2009, I was 19 years old and she was 18, I will always remember. At that time we both small, together do not know how to think a little, a pregnancy we both silly, think quite simple, pregnant and waiting to get married, to the end can not get married, only to panic, the child are seven months before going to do induced abortion. But the child’s life is great, born actually alive, is a boy. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
My parents are divorced and my mom doesn’t know I had a baby yet, everyone else in the family knows now. When I went to her house, her mom knew about it, and her dad didn’t know about it. I stayed at her house for seven days, and seeing that there was no hope, I came back. When she was pregnant, I was only making $1,500 a month, and she didn’t hate me because I didn’t have any money. It took seven months to get to the hospital, mainly because we were going to get married, but she never told her family that she wanted to get married, and my father was in jail at the time, and I couldn’t contact my mother, so it turned out badly. She didn’t want to give the baby away, and she cried. The two of us did get together because of impulse, because when we first started, someone said she was not a virgin, so I asked her, and she later told me she was with me to prove she was a virgin. We just met when she was chasing a boy, she sent messages to people every day, they ignored her. I sent her two roses on Valentine’s Day and took her to eat good food. Just after eating together, she sent a message to that person, but sent the wrong send me this to, we quarreled. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Before we broke up, when I went to her house to see her, she didn’t let me look at her phone and started to guard against me, and people were calling her every day at that time, and she didn’t answer in front of me, saying it was her mother, and she didn’t let me look at the messages, she read them and deleted them. After that, she deleted it. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Anyway, I was going to wait for her for three years, she gave me her first time, had a baby for me, and I couldn’t let it go and always wanted a chance to be nice to her. I want her to come back, let my friend introduce me to a girlfriend, want to try her, I was the first to inform her sister that I have a new girlfriend, her sister and my new girlfriend on the phone cursing up, I think if she really have me in mind, will come back to see me. I was in a dilemma when she finally called me and said she would buy a ticket to come back tomorrow, I was so happy to hear that I said you come back, I planned to break up with my new girlfriend when she came back, but after an hour she called me and said she would not come back. I had been living with my new girlfriend for three months when I heard she was also getting married. I think the fate is over, I can only know her news through her sister, her sister said you and she completely cut it off, she does not do wind well. I went back to my friend’s house to inquire, a question is indeed not very good, I will not think about her. It is true that there is a part of no relationship, even if I had a child with me, there is no special feelings.
The first time we met, I had twenty dollars on me, or she and her sister treated me to a spicy hot meal. Every time she came to me, we mostly went to the fifth floor of China World Trade Center to eat hot and spicy hot, although the food is very simple, but still feel quite happy. She gave me the first time, from then on I have no intention of betraying her, I want to be good to her for life, and at that time, she had no requirements for me, not picky about food or clothing. I think that’s all I’m capable of, and I’m a little powerless to give her a better life.
What she meant later was that she married someone else because I was with her first and I betrayed that, and I don’t want to explain it. I now want to find a woman who is willing to live in peace with me, and take the road to the future in a practical manner. I don’t have a house or money, and I’m grateful that I don’t want anything. The child’s adoptive parents are now moving their bungalow and are divided into buildings. The people also gave us two thousand dollars, said to my object to buy some tonic, we both went back to hug and cry. When the child was full moon, my girlfriend did not go, I went by myself. The people and I said not to look at the child, and do not contact, I am so heartbroken. Now I call twice a year to ask for my child, but when people hear it’s me, they don’t want to answer, and I hope this child will grow up happily.