My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship since our sophomore year of college, and it’s been six years now, and we’ve split up and met a lot of resistance before that. Especially my mom and dad, they have always been particularly opposed to me and him together, and he was kicked out by my mom the first time he went to my house. Then I didn’t dare to be with him openly, and for more than two years I kept it a secret from my family.
This situation did not improve until I came home this year for the Mid-Autumn Festival, probably because they both slowly thought things through.
I really can’t tell you how happy I was to see my mom and dad have such a big change of heart. So, as soon as I got back from home, I told my boyfriend about it. The first thing I did was to tell my boyfriend that he was not happy at all, and I honestly didn’t know how lost I was at that time.
Then two weeks ago, one day it happened to be my 26th birthday, and my mom came back from a business trip to Nanjing and passed by my place to spend my birthday with me. However, that night I picked up my mother back but staged something that made me laugh and cry. My boyfriend and his usual best four or five brothers, suddenly appeared in my home, they did not give me any prior warning, and my boyfriend also “long ago went to Shenzhen on business”. I was holding a lot of things in my hand, so I asked my mother to open the door for me, but I did not expect my mother to open the door and be covered with a cloth bag to the head. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Seeing me in that state of fear, his buddy chased me back behind him. When we got home, only to see my mother sitting alone on the couch sulking, which is something I’ve never seen her like this before in my life. Then, my boyfriend was shivering in the cold in a pair of flowered shorts, and his face was painted so colorfully that he was unrecognizable without looking hard. A few of his buddies just stood there dumbfounded, leaning against the door.
I later figured out that my boyfriend had planned to use my birthday as an opportunity to give me a big surprise and propose to me. But it just didn’t occur to me that my mom would happen to be coming over that night and that it would be my mom who opened the door.
He used two months of his income to buy me a diamond ring, and said he’d have his buddy with a video camera help capture the historic moment. Then he dressed up as a gift himself and hid in a box, with no clothes on because he wanted to tell me during the proposal that if ever he did something wrong to me or if I stopped loving him, he could leave home naked like this with only a pair of underwear on ……
My boyfriend has always been a very dotty, thoughtful person, and I speak from the heart, if my mom hadn’t been there that day, I don’t know what I would have been happy about, I would have been so happy I would have passed out. But everything that day turned out to be completely different because my mom was there.
Sensei Sky Forever Blue, as I told you earlier, my mom actually didn’t really dislike him from the beginning. It was only because of my firmness that she slowly loosened her tongue. Now that my boyfriend has made such a mess, my mother is bent on saying that this man is too unreliable and unreal, saying that if I really marry him, I will definitely suffer and regret in the future …… I don’t know how to do the work now, she said that if I still insist on marrying him, I must first break off the relationship with my family. Please help me, what should I do to be good?