When she first met Cai Xinhua, Huang Jingjing was attracted to his literary style of painting, she thought Cai Xinhua was “acting cute and stalkerish” to better highlight his artistic personality; she thought his instigation and caution was because he cared for himself, and his lack of ideas was to accommodate himself.
But after the wedding, as we spent more time together, Cai Xinhua’s words and actions began to change in Huang Jingjing’s eyes, and she found that the man was becoming more and more “effeminate”.
Cai Xinhua always sleeps with a pillow, and every time she looks at his sleeping posture, Huang Jingjing has an indescribable feeling. But in the end, she held back.
As soon as Cai Xinhua got home, he had to change into pajamas, the kind he bought himself with flowers; when he watched TV, he always had to chew some snacks; when he took a shower, he had to wear a shower cap, saying that washing it every day would affect the quality of his hair. The first time I saw him wearing a shower cap, Huang Jingjing was so shocked that he didn’t close his mouth for half a day; Cai Xinhua not only speaks slowly, but also likes to use exclamations.
Cai Xinhua is also a bit weak and incompetent in the eyes of Jingjing Huang, who is careful in his interpersonal interactions: he holds back in his unit, he doesn’t argue when someone finds the wrong money when buying something, and he can’t make decisions about anything.
Huang Jingjing couldn’t forget the time when he gave birth.
That day was the second day of the Chinese New Year, and Jingjing was lying in the operating room, pale and waiting to give birth. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
“Your wife has insufficient amniotic fluid and an abnormal fetal heartbeat, which is a dangerous situation, we suggest you choose a cesarean section to ensure the health of the fetus and adults, please make a decision quickly, cesarean or not?”
“Ah! Is it dangerous? What will happen to the baby, what will happen to the adults, what should I do?
“I’m not sure if I’m going to be able to do this, but I’m not going to be able to do it.
Huang Jingjing braced herself and glanced at the panicked and confused Cai Xinhua at the bedside, suddenly feeling more exhausted and desperate than ever.
The man was so weak and useless at a time when she needed it most, what guarantee and hope was there for her future?
While thinking, Huang Jingjing wanted to cry with resignation, she used all her remaining strength to yell at Cai Xinhua, “Hurry up and dissect!”
After a timely cesarean delivery, Huang Jingjing’s mother and child were safe.
The first time I saw a woman, I was happy to see her, but she was not happy.
“Honey, here are the diapers for the baby, look at the pink flowers and the little bear. Oh, and this is milk powder, and I bought bottles, and the pink pumping papers and wet wipes are on your bedside so you can hold them better, what else is there?”
Listening to Cai Xinhua’s advice, Huang Jingjing only felt like a swarm of flies buzzing in her ears, and a burst of indescribable disgust rose up inside her: who’s a man so abetting? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
“All right, all right, you don’t have to explain!” The intolerant Huang Jingjing interrupted Cai Xinhua.
“Look, you’re impatient again, but there’s still an hour before the end of visiting hours, so I’ll stay with you, you can take a nap, you can eat something, you can ……”
Huang Jingjing felt countless The different eyes cast at Cai Xinhua, making her ashamed.
“Stop talking about it, I want to rest for a while, you can go home.” When she said this Huang Jingjing felt her whole body trembling, she didn’t know if it was because of her weakness or her anger.
In the end, Cai Xinhua was “kicked out”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. ”
“Other people’s husbands have to feed their wives!” Huang Jingjing occasionally squeezed Cai Xinhua. But he said with a thin smile, “That’s because they’re not capable of marrying a wife as capable as you are.”
When her son was first born, Huang Jingjing focused more on her child and less on Cai Xinhua. But when she got over it, she found that her dislike for Cai Xinhua was making a comeback. What if her son becomes a second Cai Xinhua in the future? She couldn’t bear to have two “sissy” men in her family anyway.
Huang Jingjing’s communication with Cai Xinhua became less and less, and she even thought that she could no longer live with this man, so she asked Cai Xinhua for a separation.
Cai Xinhua couldn’t accept this reality. He couldn’t understand how he could not understand: he loved his wife so much, but she did this to him. He expressed his disbelief and despair by committing suicide. Fortunately, he was rescued in time and was pulled back from the death line.
The pain behind the “sissy”
Huang Jingjing didn’t expect things to go this far. After a night of talking in the hospital room, the two decided to work on their marriage for once and receive marriage counseling from a counselor.
In the counseling room, Huang Jingjing got into Cai Xinhua’s heart for the first time.
It turns out that when Cai Xinhua was 6 years old, their parents decided to divorce. That day, Cai Xinhua begged his mother hard all afternoon, but she finally left in a determined manner. The mother’s abandonment became a permanent pain in his heart, and he always thought it was because he was bad that his mother didn’t want him.
This knot affected him so much that he was always weak and silent at school, always at the mercy of others at work, and always subservient to his wife in his marriage.
In order to have a foothold in the unit, Cai Xinhua never dared to say “no” to other people’s demands; he was always cautious when interacting with outsiders, afraid of getting into any trouble. Until he married the beautiful and generous, love and hate Huang Jingjing, Cai Xinhua felt that his life had finally found a harbor. Marriage is the happiest thing in his life, but now Huang Jingjing wants to abandon him, how can he accept? He thought it should be that he was not good enough, just like his mother said during the divorce, “There is not a single good man in your Cai family!”
Huang Jingjing never imagined that there was such a deplorable story behind Cai Xinhua’s “effeminate” personality, and suddenly her dislike for him was not so strong, but she felt the confidence to help him.
While guiding Cai Xinhua to adjust himself, the counselor also reminded Huang Jingjing to see his own problems in the marriage. Huang Jingjing, who grew up confident and independent, often tends to become dictatorial and wants to have her own say in everything, but sometimes she inevitably longs for a bit of a small woman with a tall, powerful man to lean on, so she begins to complain about her husband’s cowardly lack of commitment. The core of her problem is that this arbitrariness and desire to rely on a complete lack of stability, one moment this, one moment that, which led to Cai Xinhua puzzled and only more cowardly no idea.
Editorial: In fact, there are no perfect people in the world, and it is because we cannot do everything that we need each other. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.