In reality, it’s hard to find a soulmate online, so how do you choose a reliable boyfriend?
The first type: a man who understands you, appreciates you and respects you.
These are the types of men who don’t ask questions about your family, your relationship, your job, your age, your opinion of him and your past. He will respect the choices you make and encourage you to live a healthy and happy life. He is very sincere with you, every time you talk to him, he never covers up, very serious and not perfunctory, honestly expresses his views on the Internet, on reality and on certain things, and will rationally discuss with you about emotions, love, marriage, family and other topics.
He understands you and cares about you, and he is your most faithful confidant when you are distressed; especially when you are lonely, he will always stand by your side with a greeting: “You must take good care of yourself and be happy.” It will be able to warm your heart. He remembers anything you’ve written; he leaves a word and a half when you’re troubled, gently nudging you …… These are silent messages that he genuinely cares about you and supports everything you do.
Type 2: It’s safe to confide in him.
You can communicate with him openly and honestly. He knows how to listen and knows when to talk and when to shut up. You won’t be afraid to express yourself to him and can feel safe when you share your feelings and thoughts with him. The foundation of good communication is trust, and in his presence you are sure that you will not be ridiculed or hurt by expressing your deep inner thoughts. This is called feeling secure. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re getting into.
If we meet the kind of online friends above, it is really something that makes us vomit. I think whether it is the internet or reality, it is normal for love to happen, and it is normal for love to end, and it is shameful to start with a good love and end with a calm breakup and public privacy. So choose an online friend, make sure you choose a safe one, at least he won’t at any time publish what you used to chat about to the public.
Category 3: Men who share your interests and aren’t creepy.
A man who has common interests should be considered a soulmate, who knows how to put you in a comfortable mood, who knows how to give you a sense of security, and who doesn’t make you feel hard to grasp and get along with. He is cultured and affectionate, especially when we talk together and have more to say to each other, and he is also more erudite, his language is spiritual, not dry, not obscene, and can bring you passion and joy.
When you talk to each other, he knows how to express himself and listens to you patiently, and if you are right, he is able to admit his mistakes; even if you are not, he is willing to forgive you.
There are things you can talk about, you don’t get angry at every turn, and you don’t lose your temper and gamble over the smallest thing, kick you out and never have any more messages.
A soulmate is hard to find in real life, and so is the internet. If you can communicate and get along with a man who has a common hobby, it must be a feeling of hating each other, and a soulmate feeling. You will not only get emotional pleasure from each other, but also various other gains.