30-year-old Zheng Jie has been in an icy mood lately. The company has been working hard for six years and finally got the news that she will be promoted to director next month. The good mood has not yet been properly felt, the company organized a physical examination on Monday, but Zheng Jie found out that she was pregnant. The company’s newest product is a new product, a new product that will be available in the marketplace.
When she hung up the phone, she remembered the general manager’s conversation with her in the afternoon and sat sadly in the office, not in the mood to go home.
“It’s up to you to decide whether you want the position or the child. But you know, you’re the only one who waits for the job, and the job doesn’t wait for you.”
Do you want the job or do you want the kids? She asked herself over and over again, but still had trouble deciding. She felt that this question had become the biggest problem in her life.
In fact, Zheng Jie’s story is representative of the confusion that too many older women are facing: do they want a high salary and a high job?
In fact, Zheng Jie’s story is very representative.
Women who choose to have childrensay this
Birthing and raising children is only natural and not worth mentioning compared to work. Whether the economic base is good or bad, anyway, to complete the continuation of life, to do their part in the cause of the development of human continuity.
We can find another job if we lose it, but if we miss the best age to have children, we will find that we don’t have the ability to do so when we have enough money and want to have children.
The woman who chose to keep her seat said this
People have to live for themselves. To stick to their own dreams and pursuits. The woman who has worked so hard for years to build her own mountain, how can she give it up because of her children? Once you have a child, your future life will have to revolve around him, so where is the joy of life to be found? The quality of your life should be taken care of when you are young.
Take a step back, if you don’t have financial security, what can you give him even if you have a child? So you still have to work hard and wait until everything is ripe before you plan to have children or not.
Birth of a child PK to keep your seat
It is often said that it is difficult to be a human being and even more difficult to be a woman, and it is even more difficult to be a modern working woman. The company’s main goal is to provide a more efficient and effective solution to the problem. Personnel disturbance, household chores drag, role dislocation …… out of the family women face the challenge of dual roles in the family and society. The changes in society have brought them new opportunities and success. But it also brings them more pressure. This pressure comes from society and the male world, as well as from the family.
They give themselves up to be a full-time housewife, which is a disservice to what they have learned over the years, and they can easily become disconnected from society and even abandoned by their husbands; they want to be a professional woman, but when they reach the stage of career advancement, their families tell them that they should fulfill their responsibilities of having children. When faced with this difficult choice, women are torn and in pain.
Baby and career
In fact, which is most important to a woman: family or career? What is the wisest choice for a woman once she can’t have both? There is no standard answer to these questions. The most important thing to do is to make sure you don’t regret your choice.
There is no limit to the number of promotions. Waiting for a promotion is like waiting for a bus, the longer you wait, the more you pay, the more you don’t want to give up. The only way to get a good deal is to know that you have a ticket in your hand, and that the bus will definitely come, and that you will be able to get on it when it comes, so it is a wise choice. The company’s ability to work is like a ticket in the hand, as long as there is a ticket in the hand, the car will always come, come always have the opportunity to get on, and why rush a moment?
Likewise, having a baby is not a matter of urgency, and you don’t have to wait six months or a year. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So just weigh what’s more important to you right now and do your best to get it right, and one day you’ll reap the rewards of another life event.