Advice to those women who are daughters-in-law or preparing to become daughters-in-law:
It doesn’t matter if you’re not pretty, as long as you do the following four things, you’re a superb daughter-in-law!
First: the woman the son likes should be knowledgeable
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law revolves around focusing almost on the same man, the man who is the daughter-in-law’s husband, the mother-in-law’s son. As parents, they actually love their sons and daughters, and they always want him/her to find a good partner.
The son only needs to find a daughter-in-law who is knowledgeable and knows how to love her husband. There are no genuinely malicious in-laws. Even if there is, it is a small minority.
Advice:
Be a woman, be a woman who knows how to be reasonable. Not only in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also in the relationship between friends is equally important.
Second: The daughter-in-law that the father-in-law likes should be hard-working and capable
One thing you should know about married women is that you marry for what purpose? It is for happiness. More than that, it’s for love. So, in love, you have to learn to love everything about him, including, of course, loving his family.
Here, the latest theory of the father-in-law is that he likes a daughter-in-law who is a woman who can do the housework and take care of the household. The most recent theory is that the daughter-in-law is a woman who can take care of the house. The newest theory is that the daughter-in-law is a woman who can do everything decently in the home, and externally, she can do things well.
Advice:
Women who marry for love, isn’t your goal to be happy? Remember, in-laws are parents. They are your husband’s parents. They are the parents of the man who gave you love and gave you happiness.
Third: The mother-in-law likes a thoughtful and filial daughter-in-law
In fact, parents have nothing to ask for, as long as you do a good job, they will love you. Don’t look at your mother-in-law as if she were the woman in the picture above. The conflicts between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law are actually from the same man. Don’t let him get caught in the middle of being the wrong person.
The daughter-in-law that the mother-in-law likes is very simple. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
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Every married woman has to be a mother-in-law (or mother-in-law) one day, and it’s good for each other that we all learn something from each other. Because the topic of your argument will always be around the same man.
Advice:
The main thing to be a good daughter-in-law is to please your mother-in-law. And how to please, there is really no need to necessarily change anything about yourself. You just have to bring out the most sincere in yourself. You have to treat your mother-in-law as if she were your own mother.
(Words of advice to mothers-in-law: It’s really aggravating to have your daughter-in-law do this, too, if you’re a grumpy mother-in-law. In fact, what you do is from love, take why not live together peacefully on this?)
Fourth: the little sister-in-law like the old brother and sister-in-law smart dealings
Older brother’s parents are also their own parents, but for the oldest brother’s wife, we are all women again. But it is also not good to deal with each other. So as a daughter-in-law, you not only have to please your in-laws’ likes, but even your sister-in-law’s brother-in-law’s relationship should be good.
They don’t want their oldest brother to have to choose what to do between you and their parents, whether to give up their marriage or their parents. Of course, the best of both worlds is the outcome everyone wants.
The brother-in-law and sister-in-law also play a very important role in your and your husband’s future life, and your arrival into their family. This is a gain. But for this gain to become more perfect, you must deal with your husband’s siblings’ relationship.
Know that a smart woman will do all of this to make both her brother-in-law and sister-in-law like it. The secret to getting them to like it is to not only care for them, but it is even more important to care for your in-laws. Set a very good example for them.
Advice:
This is a topic that has targets on both sides. For the daughter-in-law, it turns out that she has to go and do so much to be a good daughter-in-law. Wouldn’t you be aggravated yourself? But if you want to complain, it shows that there is always insincerity in your heart to love a man, that is after all his parents his brothers and sisters.
But here is also to give you as a little uncle sister-in-law advice, is not to be uninteresting to spite their sister-in-law. You know, maybe in another family, you could be someone else’s daughter-in-law or son-in-law.
There are also words for those in-laws:
Yes, I did mention the four categories of extreme daughters-in-law above, but I think the only downside is that I didn’t give advice to you as in-laws. You need to take a serious look at the relationship between you and your daughter-in-law.
She’s not just your son’s daughter-in-law, she’s also a member of your family. There is no need for you as in-laws to be brutal and unreasonable. Remember that the same one love is always given to the same man. He is your son and her husband.