Nowadays, “flash marriage” is not only a buzzword, but also a “fashionable” one in the minds of many young people.
The first time I saw the company, I was able to find out if it was a good idea.
Flash Marriage Survey:
Part1 for the unmarried
Sometimes, a lifetime of companionship may not be enough to truly understand a person. Sometimes, the flower of love can bloom with a single glance at each other. This shows that the quality of emotion and the weight of time are not always exactly equal. The love between a man and a woman is originally the hormone called phenylaminopropionic acid in the “action”. Since this is a biochemical reaction, there is the possibility of being catalyzed at any time, let alone in this era where everything is developing at a rapid pace. The procedure of love and marriage has long been less “marathon”, 3 seconds to fall in love with a person; 5 minutes to talk about a relationship; 7 hours to promise each other a lifetime …… face “more fast and save The “quick and easy” trend of flash marriages, you will insist on a protracted period of time together, or do you believe in quick and fast love?
Part2 for married people
Some people say that love is a slow-release energy that starts hot and later remains constant, but never cools down; others say that marriage is a slow-ripening fruit, and flash marriage is to ripen the fruit, but the ripened fruit may not taste beautiful. No matter how much people define love and marriage, marriage always belongs to men and women under the effect of aniline propionic acid. The first family, since the choice of “flash”, the love train will be in the hot chemical effect, rumbling speed. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Flash: Married within three months of meeting
Remember that three years ago, my wife’s friend Fang completed the whole thing from meeting to marriage with a man within a month. The first time I saw the company, I asked my wife to accompany me to the National Day, and I said to her, “I’m not going to go, like this warlike marriage, sooner or later after the wedding there must be a bad battle to fight, I do not look good I will not go, afraid of bad luck!
At the time I was a casual flirt, but unfortunately I was right.
The two men and their families had a big fight just before the end of the year, and are still fighting over custody of their children.
It’s no coincidence that my friend Jianlan, who is a very good woman in terms of looks and personality and work, is a very good woman.
The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product.
I really can’t bring myself to look at these two examples of “flash” marriages.
The first time I saw the company, I was able to get to know it, and I was able to get to know it.
Many things in the world have their own laws, and if you go against these laws and swallow them all at once, you will naturally be left with more or less sequelae. The following is a look at the six major sequelae of “flash marriage”.
Legacy one: the clash of two families’ backgrounds and cultures that we don’t understand at all;
In China, marriage is never as simple as we think it is, just as long as you are willing to do it. The first thing we need to do is to make sure that we have the right people in the right place. The two simple subjects of the marriage and a series of problems that exist are widely and indirectly latent in the conflict of their respective families.
So, the ancestors were wise, and the marriage system in China has been in place for thousands of years, and they have used the “right family” as the threshold and criterion for marriage. The first time I saw the film, I was able to see that it was a beautiful love story that broke through the confines of traditional marriage, such as “Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai” and “Zhang Sheng and Cui Yingying”, but the foresight and universality of it is easy to understand.
As the saying goes, things come in small groups. This saying makes it clear that each person, in their own way, has a pro-like habit. The same class interests and habits of life, among the rich, the poor, businessmen, farmers and intellectuals, they all have their own common language, habits of life and value identity. Although modern civilization and information technology have gradually diluted such boundaries, their contradictions and conflicts have always been impossible to eliminate.
So it is relatively easy for a man and a woman to fall in love in a short period of time, but it is not a matter of a year and a half if the two families are to truly integrate. In a country like China, even the most loving lovers and couples can’t escape the influence of the whole family on the marriage.
Aftermath 2: A marriage based on a one-sided relationship and a mutual smile may have less staying power;
With all due respect, I never believe that there is much true love in a “flash marriage”.
I think it’s a good idea to have a good understanding of what’s going on in your life, not to mention the fact that anything real needs to be tested over time, not to mention years and years and years, but I think it’s necessary for men and women to know each other for more than two years before marriage.
Marriage, after all, is not a dating party where you can tolerate each other and cooperate and even attract each other to finish a game based on just one side of the story and a good laugh.
The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Without a little true love to back it up, any subtle event after marriage can quickly destroy the life of the marriage inadvertently and prematurely. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The “flash” marriage is like a ripe fruit, although it shortens the fruiting period, but in fact also reduces the quality of its fruit, more importantly, the fruit of this is quite unable to withstand the time preservation, to be far more than the natural ripening of the fruit rotted much earlier.
Aftermath 3: After the passion, the responsibility has nowhere to rest;
There are a considerable number of men and women who have entered into marriage on the spur of the moment and with passion. As children often say, he or she just smiled at me, he or she must like me. In fact, all of it is just a thought under the cover of passion. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Think about it, can such a marriage still have responsibility? The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
Aftermath 4: There are too many things to know and deliver in time, which can directly create a crisis of trust between the couple;
There is a saying that slow work makes perfect work, and this is not true for marriage and relationships. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product, which is a new product for the company.
As a flash mob wrote, “I really didn’t expect him to be such a person, he had six girlfriends, and one of them was pregnant with his child. And, also like to gamble, a gambling often two or three days can not find someone. I really regret that I did not figure it all out properly at first.” In fact, which person does not want to know the other half of their marriage clearly? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In fact, Jianlan, whom I mentioned at the beginning of the article, had her marriage break up for this reason. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. So after the marriage, her husband blamed her for not taking the initiative to confess before the marriage, called her a liar, even to the extent of all aspects of life, and did not have any trust in her. Obviously, there is no trust between the couple, and the marriage is gone. And it all started directly at the beginning of the flash mob that planted the seeds of trouble.
A “flash” marriage is like a ripe fruit, which shortens the fruiting period, but actually reduces the quality of the fruit, and more importantly, the fruit that comes out of it is quite unpreserved, and it rots much earlier than those that ripen naturally.
The sequelae of the lack of love period “character wedding examination”, resulting in constant friction after marriage;
The most important indicator of whether the two men and women can be happy together in marriage is not how much they love each other, but how much their personalities really are The most important indicator of a happy marriage is not how much they love each other, but how much their personalities complement each other and blend together.
The most important indicator of a happy marriage is not how much they love each other, but how much their personalities complement each other.
We should not underestimate the need for a year and a half of contact between men and women before they get married. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Legacy 6: The details make the difference.
Marriage is actually made up of one small detail, and the happiness of a marriage is often determined by these details. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. There was even an online friend who mentioned to the author that she was divorced because she couldn’t stand her husband’s love of hitting after drinking.
There are many more details like this. Many men love to brag, drink, gamble, not wear socks and not wear condoms, and these seemingly insignificant little details are very likely to be the direct cause of a woman’s divorce from you.
So, the details make the difference between success and failure, and a thousand miles of dike collapse in an anthill. Many of these details are things that people who flash their marriage cannot learn about before they get married. Of course, it’s not that people who don’t flash their marriage can get these details right before marriage, but the risk is still more or less greater for people who flash their marriage in comparison.