My husband and I have been married for more than two years, and our baby is a year old, so every day is peaceful and warm.
Today is the winter solstice and my birthday. I was expecting a little surprise from my husband, but I waited until the evening after dinner, when my parents and sister gave me birthday red packets and wishes, but I still didn’t get a little surprise from my husband, and I waited until now, and the idiot still didn’t say anything. Then I told him, today is my birthday, why do not you give me a gift? Give me a little show can also ah. Then I saw his head down in embarrassment, pressed the phone, put it down again, and just said happy birthday. I’m not sure what I’m feeling. I used to have flowers and gifts, but I didn’t when I had a baby, and I don’t like my yellow face anymore.
Seeing him pick up his phone again, he usually likes to play games, I know he is playing games again to go, so, grabbed his phone will not give him to play, I want to be angry with him, let him be reported, this kind of man’s bad habits, it is necessary to cure this to be good, everyone said it, right? But he was also anxious at this point, rushed to grab the phone back, I biased not to give, the phone covered in the back. I saw that he was really angry, so I took my phone out and saw that the payment interface was a flower account. What’s he doing with it? What little girl is he paying at this late hour? What’s he doing with the money? The first thing you need to do is to take a closer look at it, right?
I ignored his impatience, ignored his cursing on the sidelines, and I had to find out who he was spending money on, crying about it every month, and I really suspected that he had a little girl or was secretly charging money to play games. The first time I looked at it, it was really scary, more than 10,000 credits were almost gone, which means he even secretly spent more than 10,000 dollars behind my back, this can’t be spared.
When I saw the payee, I froze for a moment. This is not the right plot, the payee is not me. I looked at him blankly and couldn’t figure out his brain circuit, why he was doing this. This is to give me a birthday bonus? Is there really no money? Where did the monthly salary of almost 7000 go? The first time I looked at his detailed bills, I had a memory that he was probably really broke and I was a wife who didn’t even know it.
Baby expenses alone accounted for more than 2,000, as well as food for a family of five, mortgage credit cards, utilities, car payments, etc. When I saw the maternity hospital, education and training, I knew I just seemed a little over the top and actually suspected him. I went to rehab and training last month, and my salary was basically not enough to post and asked my husband for money. At this point he probably knew that I saw the bill, open mouth did not speak, I pulled him a little, he refused to lean over. I showed him the payment interface and said, “This is the best birthday gift I’ve ever received, I know you have a heart, and then jumped into his arms and cried, so my husband has to support so many family expenses, husband, you work hard.
In fact, my husband is also one of the countless struggling men in the world, perhaps he comes home every day, he wants to see the family have a meal, coaxing the children to walk, but today, this holiday, he worked all day, receiving guests busy, cooking dinner to eat, and then go to the park with our two little naughty, probably tired enough. The last thing he had to do was to face my questions when he was about to go to bed, and that’s what gave him the biggest chill, I think.
From this special birthday, I understand that some of the payoffs in marriage, we may not see, men they will not say, maybe just pay off also do not remember, it turns out, we can live plainly, no pressure to catch up, it is because, there is someone at the back to give us leaning and support, thank you, my husband, happy birthday, myself. #emotional life #headline emotions