All men have some unspoken rules about marriage, but don’t underestimate the unspoken rules of marriage for men. It’s even often used by men as a criterion for choosing women.
One, lovers are lovers and wives are wives.
Don’t think that men’s minds are not well thought out. For love and marriage, they are sometimes more meticulous than women, so men will distinguish between wives and lovers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. They can distinguish the main priority. The men will treat different women differently and differently.
Treating those women who are just playing around, men are also in the mindset of playing around, after the passion is over, you should not expect him to remember you; for those women who are used to fall in love, he is also very attentive to give his feelings, but he will not be very strict with you, because he understands that love will eventually pass, you are not a woman who wants to spend her life with him, so he will be very lenient with you; but only to a Women will be strictly harsh, that is, their own wives. Do not think that men are always everywhere with you, dislike you this dislike you that is not love you, and even do not take you as a wife. In fact, only they understand in their own hearts, they are so picky only one purpose that is because you can be more beautiful. After all, for him, the wife is like a house, to be stable, to be solid, more need to spend time and feelings to maintain to pursue, together with the maintenance.
We can because a man can not distinguish between the main, very philandering, and always be in and out of love. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. It’s a good idea to be open and accepting, because his pickiness at least proves that he cares. So why not think about whether all your flaws are right by him. Then try to correct them. Become more and more perfect. The man will naturally only have you in his heart.
Two, a woman can be mediocre, but her heart must be beautiful.
The snake scorpion beauty, although the appearance is very fascinating, easy to confuse people, but over time her inner evil has long been revealed in the beautiful face, so that this beauty becomes completely different. What’s more, beauty can only be momentary, just like a man’s love stage. It’s all fleeting. And men will really marry, not necessarily the woman who looks beautiful, more likely to marry an ordinary-looking, but the inner most to the good and beautiful woman. This is the gap between the dream of love and the reality of marriage. Because it is a love affair, men enjoy the visual beauty more. After all, it is not a person who lives a lifetime. As long as there is beauty you can ignore the good and bad of the heart. But if it comes to marriage, looking for a lifelong partner. The first thing a man will not consider is a woman who is as beautiful as a flower but has a less-than-good heart.
It can even be said that men look at the face when they fall in love, but they look at the beauty inside when they get married. Everyone knows that old age, sickness and death is a fact that can never be changed. And people will always get older, when the time slowly passes, the appearance will also age with the passage of time, but only the beauty and ugliness of the human mind is always the same. As the saying goes, the mountains are easy to change and the nature is hard to change. Perhaps there is a similarity with this. And for a mature man, they experience countless, so more will be aware of this. The reason why the prince didn’t choose Cinderella’s sister is because they are hard-hearted, and women with good qualities like Cinderella are the ones many princes dream of.
Three, men need wives who have fun in life, not girlfriends who love to pamper.
The difference between women and men can be seen in many ways. Especially the pampering nature of women. Many women feel that a petulant woman will give a man a desire to protect and want to pamper. And in the relationship stage, men do like this can make them feel like a hero girlfriend. But if you consider marriage. Then men may not choose a dainty wife. Just as Zhuge Liang married Huang Yueying. The reason why Zhuge Liang only married Huang Yueying was not because she was dainty, but more importantly because Zhuge Liang knew that Huang Yueying was a smart and talented woman who could help Zhuge Liang in many cases.
So when it comes to marriage, what men need more than anything is a wife who can help them through thick and thin, who is strong and confident, and who has fun in life, not a woman who just pampers and hides behind a man. When in love, because of the man’s youthfulness and manliness let them choose a dainty woman as a girlfriend. But if they choose a wife, they will no longer choose a woman who will only stand behind them as a wife. After all, men can occasionally be insecure. They also have moments of fear, when they are no longer in the limelight, and are not sure that a dainty woman will still follow his lead and stay with him as she always has.
On the contrary, a woman who has a confident personality and is independent and has fun in life will not leave easily when a man is down. It can even help a man get out of the fog and onto another path to success. Society has placed a heavy responsibility on men to provide for their families and to protect them. From a young age, they are taught to be strong, not to cry, not to be weak, to act like a man. In front of outsiders, he acts very strong, but, inside, there are times of weakness and vulnerability. They only show their vulnerable side in front of their closest people. So he needs a wife who can go through the storm with him, who is strong inside and knows how to be forgiving. He knows that only such a person can allow him to truly fight and live without fear.
4. Reject ambiguity
Ambiguity is not an unfamiliar word to everyone nowadays. Even ambiguity often occurs in life. If you don’t choose a good person, you can maintain an ambiguous relationship with someone else. Just like in the beginning of a relationship, not sure if the person is good or not. You can be ambiguous. But if the two people to the point of marriage, then it is best to cut off some ambiguous relationship quickly. To avoid the future will cause unnecessary trouble, so that your marriage is threatened. Especially men are very possessive animals, if he identified as his own things, he will not let others while in possession. If you behave frivolously, or even give him a cuckold, then waiting for you, is destined to be a tragic end. The woman who never refuses to be ambiguous will give the man a feeling of being too casual, and when a man has this feeling about a woman, then it is destined to be short-lived for their fate.