Many women want their husbands to be a wife-beater after marriage, which means he loves you, and also means he won’t do anything wrong to his wife and make her unhappy. But you know what, men are afraid of their wives are not always out of love, sometimes it is objective factors in limiting him. Here we will look at six kinds of men who may be afraid of their wives, and you will choose that one?
First, men who can’t take care of themselves and grew up in the pampering of their families
Decades of family planning in China, and the traditional patriarchal ideology, have created a society of boys who cannot take care of themselves and grew up in the pampering of their families. Now, they are all grown up and are husbands and fathers, living the life of their own small families. And this time, the wife and children will not be like their parents see them, not to mention the sister like everything to let her. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The problem arises that not many women can tolerate a man’s inability to take care of himself for long. Such a situation is bound to let the situation of strong women and weak men continue to expand without human initiative for it, which will become a law in ignorance. The soil for the survival of machismo has become less and less, not like in the past, men’s clothes to reach out to the food to open mouth situation will only make the marriage more shaky. The reason is very simple, you are asking people to help you with everything, then you have to let people a little bit, a little bit of respect for people, right?
Second, the man who has no principles and a particularly good personality
and Not to be alarmist, a man who has no principles is very sad, and this sadness will continue throughout his family and career, and throughout his life. So, as a man you can have a good character, but must not be without principles, not without their bottom line. This principle includes to their wives and children, in this kind of scales of fate, men can not let a step, let is the atonement, is more irresponsible to the family.
Women are actually very intelligent creatures, at least smarter than men and better able to read people’s minds than men. If a man everywhere without principles to let the woman, then the woman must be crazy, she will forget, will be domineering, will be hypocritical floating up, and eventually not only can not recognize you, but also do not recognize themselves. Therefore, the man let his wife is a virtue, but not everything let, in front of the big things, if there is no a little man’s dominance, it is very terrible.
Third, there is a certain knowledge connotation, know how to tolerate the man
In fact, such men are not the same as the previous four. However, this fear is not really afraid, but a love, a wisdom. He understands his wife better than anyone else, and can manage his woman at the most critical time. He is not on the same level and segment as his wife, he is like a father watching his daughter’s mischief and naughtiness.
Fourth, a man with filial piety and a sense of responsibility
There was once a A filial son once said this to Sky Forever Blue: Everyone says I am a filial son, but in fact, a son is not as filial as his daughter-in-law. A really smart filial son would never go against his wife, he would use many ways and love to mobilize his wife to go with him to filial piety, only then is it really filial, so that filial piety is not compromised!
In fact, this “filial son’s” insight is very representative, the reason why the filial son is “afraid” of his wife is because he wants his wife to accept and understand him. The reason why the filial son is “afraid” of his wife is because he wants his wife to accept and understand his filial piety, and hopes that by listening to his wife she will accept him in a balanced way to honor his parents. The reason for this is that the man’s wisdom and sense of responsibility is reflected in the fact that there is a psychological and emotional exchange here.
Fifth, the man who talks a lot and has a mother-in-law personality
As the saying goes. Too many words will lead to failure, in fact, it is the same in marriage. If a man has too many words, he will be annoyed by women. As far as I know, not many women will like a man who is a talker. On the other hand, the man himself will be too much talk, and fall into some mistakes and handle in the hands of his wife. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In addition, this kind of man’s own psychological needs, they will always subconsciously take the silence between the two as awkward, will always take the initiative to talk, no way to find words to try to break the “deadlock “. In fact, they are wrong, many times silence can make a man richer inside, a more composed image, and a healthier marriage.
Sixth, men without a skill or a stable financial source
With all due respect, a man who is without a skill or a stable financial source. It is mostly like a fish without water. Both the family and survival conditions are very worrying. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
This concept is so ingrained that as a man you should not expect your wife to be tolerant of you in this area for any reason at all. If this goes on for a long time, maybe you won’t even be able to look up to yourself!
Afterword: Many men are afraid of others until they are “afraid of their wives” and feel “afraid of their wives” is a very humiliating thing. The thing. In fact, “fear of wife” is not to be afraid of her, you can understand that you are tolerating her, you love her, you like her to control you, you are willing to bear her some small capricious, and these are not something humiliating.