I believe that many couples who enter into marriage are looking forward to post-marital happiness while also worrying about the longevity of the marriage, here I show you 8 types of fragile marriages, please see below.
1. Romantic marriage
The pursuit of a romantic love life, the excessive demands on married life, the expectation that the sweetness and harmony of the newlyweds will last forever, that love is colorful and that passion must endure. This unrealistic expectation, once not realized in real life, will lead to friction and conflict between the two parties, which can cause serious marital problems.
2. Overly Dependent Parental Marriage
Couples who are too dependent on their parents seek support or direction from their own parents separately instead of talking to their spouse about how to cope with any problems that arise in their married life. Married couples should understand that their future is tied to their spouse and see each other as the most trustworthy and closest person.
Otherwise, such marriages usually fail because they “seek outside intervention.
3. Perfect Marriage
The couple demands perfection in everything, and each spouse enforces their own highest standards. This kind of marriage can lead to unnecessary friction due to excessive demands, and over time, even good marital relationships can be difficult to maintain.
4. “Frugal” excessive marriage
Even if the family is currently financially well-off, there is always the fear that the good times will not last, so they are overly frugal and do not allow their spouse to have more entertainment or enjoyment in life, even depriving themselves and their family of some basic needs and pleasures. The family’s financial condition is also always worried that the good times will always be good, and they are too frugal to allow their spouse to have more entertainment or enjoyment in life, and even deprive themselves and their family of some basic needs and pleasures of life, and psychologically take on too much worry without understanding the emotional life with their spouse.
5. A marriage of worry and suspicion
This usually happens to women who often suspect that they are sick and sigh to themselves, but actually want to get their spouse’s attention and care, which often turns out to be a botch and annoys their spouse.
6. “Always Right” Marriage
Being overly critical of your spouse, always criticizing your spouse’s actions and thoughts in front of others, thinking you love them, results in them being unbearable. This will cause the other person to leave you.
7. A Caring Marriage
They are always there to take care of everything, and if they don’t, it can be a trigger for conflict. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
8. Busy “business” type of marriage
Some people are never quiet, always busy, they have no holidays, no rest, and always make their spouse feel left out. This type of person who does not control themselves and spend more time with their spouse, even if it is for their career, can cause the marriage to break down.