It seems that it is always the man who turns around and walks away with a crooked neck, saying: “There is no grass at the end of the earth. It’s just that thirty years ago, when “brutality” was elevated to one of the criteria for judging whether a woman is “beautiful”, we see more and more men put down his stinky frame. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing.
Habitual with each other
53% of those surveyed
“Every morning when I get up, my bed is set up with neat and clean clothes; when I walk into the bathroom, my mouthwash cup is even filled with warm water and my toothbrush is squeezed with toothpaste; in the evening when I come home from a dinner party, she warms a glass of milk and waits for me no matter how late it is. She knows how to arrange every detail of my life without making you feel bored. And these are the results of the nearly ten years I spent with her. Love may seem a little lighter, just because it’s incorporated into more subtleties. The amount is not less, maybe more. That’s something that I’m very conscious of.”
–34 years old, advertising sales
< strong>Likeable
“When we got together we didn’t think we were going to be together for a long time, we just thought we would get along. We both like to watch DVDs, we both like to listen to music and sing, we like to eat spicy food, we like to exercise.
We have so much in common that we never get tired of being together because we have so much fun to choose from. Over time, we both came to cherish each other and eventually entered into marriage because we realized there would never be anyone better for me than him/her.”
– 29-year-old newspaper editor
< strong>“King of the Bastards and Green Beans” are seeing eye to eye
18% of respondents
“Not leaving her. Just like. No reason, right in the eye. If she’s a green bean, I’m willing to be a king of a bean.”
–26-year-old civil servant
< strong>“Owed her in a previous life”
“Often buddies ask very bluntly, how did I fall for her? I’m admittedly in the handsome class, she’s fatter and older than me, not the good-looking kind of girl.
Not when she was twenty, and even less now that she’s in her early thirties. She’s not even close to being cute, she’s got more of a temper than I do, and I take better care of her in life.
Also wondered why I want to spend my life with her. Have you ever watched the Korean drama “What is Love”? Dozens of episodes not also did not give the answer. Let’s just say we owe her in a previous life.”
– -28-year-old department manager
Paying off debt apologetic type
17% of those surveyed
“Because I spend a lot of time in the car every day, she prepares a large, delicate kettle for me, with cold green bean soup inside in the summer and warm honey water inside.
Many times before I left the house, I would quietly stand behind her and watch her prepare the kettle for me, and the look in her eyes as she concentrated I could close my eyes and think of it. I’m so busy at work that I inevitably ignore her, but she just quietly supports me.
I won’t leave her, and I don’t think this lifetime will be enough for me to repay her for how good she’s been to me.”
–31-year-old human resources
Simple Love is a habit.
Whether it’s a man or a woman, this habit will become an integral part of each other’s lives in a way that we don’t even know.
Perhaps this serves as an explanation of what “love over time” means.