Don’t look at the exterior of the man strong, in fact, under this skin also hides a sensitive heart, they also have a reluctance to face, aversion to touch the problem, in the process of couples together, smart women will be clever to avoid these “minefields “, so as not to cause unnecessary embarrassment and conflict. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Sometimes women complain about men being overbearing, grumpy and macho, but have they ever noticed that maybe it’s their own carelessness that mentions a man’s pain? The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
First, don’t talk about what “role” a man plays in the family
First, don’t talk about what “role” a man plays in the family
indent:2em;text-align:left;”>Many women are overjoyed that their husbands, who are very hardworking and good at home, are helping them with household chores. In order to express their own sense of superiority, often in front of others will mention how good their husbands at home, can help themselves to clean up the house, with children, cooking, etc., although the wife is out of a kind of praise, but for a man, he subconsciously still has a clear gender identity, still think that engage in household chores, detrimental to the male “husband “dignity, a sense of loss of identity, over time, in the heart will form resistance and annoyance psychology. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
Second, don’t criticize his mother to her face, it will hurt his feelings
It is said that the mother-in-law is the natural enemy of the daughter-in-law, and it is true that in real life the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can get along well, perhaps because of the woman’s innate narrow-mindedness and sensitive jealousy, two women in the face of a man, always inevitably fight for something. The daughter-in-law is worried that her husband will get too close to his mother, and the mother is often afraid that her son will be snatched away by another woman and alienate herself.
This underlying inexplicable jealousy or envy, once straddled between two women in-law, inevitably leads to conflicts. So, there will be, life wife at every turn, “your mother how ……”, “I am much stronger than your mother” wife appeared, do the wife once such speech, it is easy to let the husband The woman must remember that the husband and his mother is always blood relations, that is simply impossible to cut off the affection, or perhaps feelings to deeper than you, you can show you do wife’s gentle and virtuous, but never show than his mother also virtuous.
Third, if he sees a beautiful woman and looks at her twice, you should not sneer at him
But where a man is normal, men like beautiful women, even if he doesn’t admit it on his lips. And as a wife, often jealous of their husbands appreciate other women and jealousy is unbearable. In fact, this is unnecessary. Smart women must know how to motivate their husbands or boyfriends, and even if they can’t resist the urge to understand their husbands’ ideas, they should take the initiative to point to a beautiful woman on the street and ask their boyfriends: Is she pretty? Never ask, is she prettier than me? Remember! Because the effect of correction will be better than feeling good about yourself.
Fourth, don’t compliment another man by comparing his flaws
If you do this, your husband will definitely feel looked down upon and taunted. In general, men are usually insecure about the same sex, and if you compare him to another man’s strengths, it may often make him apprehensive. So try not to compare your husband with other men, even if you have to do so, it’s best to take your husband’s strengths and compare them with other men’s weaknesses, so that your husband feels better than other men, not worse. Don’t fixate on your husband’s flaws and let your husband lose face, lose confidence and feel less good about you.
Fifth, don’t tease him about his “romantic views”
Fifth, don’t tease him about his “romantic views”
Fifth, don’t tease him about his “romantic views. indent:2em;text-align:left;”>Each man has his own romantic feelings and preferences, and a wife should never deride his “romantic views”, even if you think his romantic views are so out-of-date or childishly funny, you should respect and encourage your husband’s romance, otherwise Otherwise, it will hurt his self-esteem, and from then on, your husband will not only resist romance, but may also have an inferiority complex. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Sixth, don’t endlessly persuade him to get a raise or “jump ship”
Sixth, don’t endlessly persuade him to get a raise or “jump ship”
A woman who endlessly urges her husband to hurry up and get a promotion, or jump ship, most women who think this way tend to have a strong sense of vanity, which is full of men constantly giving their face to the woman, such women will certainly make men exhausted, doubly stressed, distraught.
Not only that, such women often have a strong attachment mentality, as the saying goes, “Only the vine wraps around the tree, which has a tree wrapped around the vine. In order to meet their own vanity and dependence, they do not hesitate to put all kinds of pressure on their husbands. Of course, encourage your husband to strive for improvement, positive and not wrong, but, if not according to the actual situation, haphazardly create pressure, but may be counterproductive. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Seventh, don’t make his eating habits or bad habits the topic of conversation
As a husband, often confide in his wife something on his mind, there are no secrets between the couple, very transparent to each other, but the husband confide in you is not to spread you around, ad neighborhood, friends. The man sometimes taboo his wife in front of his friends often reveal their “secrets”, especially his bad habits and certain defects, this is a big taboo.
In fact, this is a person’s normal psychology, who is not willing to let others know too much about their own shortcomings, which is also human nature is not. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
It is inevitable that the couple will have some arguments, maybe the woman will argue for half a day about a certain hobby of the man, or be too strict with the man just because she wants him to be better, but this will often cause emotions in the man and lead to conflicts, so it is better for both sides to understand each other. The two sides can understand each other well.