In sex, it seems that women are always “sexually scheming” because they are vulnerable, for example, if she wants a leather coat today, she will threaten to sleep with a man; or occasionally, she will punish him sexually and make him scream. The man will be in pain. In sex, women sometimes have impure hearts, but men are not? Only, he behaves very differently from women! This is his usual excuse for coaxing the conservative you into bed. In your affair with him, it makes him anxious, so he is always looking for opportunities to sleep with you.
One day, he’s all lovey-dovey and determined to break down the city. He whispers tenderly in your ear: If you make love to me, you will love me more. You may wonder, does sex really have that important a role in your relationship? Could it be that by actually having sex with him, you will be as crazy about him as the legend says?
Conspiracy Subtext: Possess Before You Own
The reason why men think The reason you love him more after sex is because in his mind, sex is a man’s sharpshooter, a conquest and an attack, and he is incredibly confident in his sexuality. For men, after a sexual act, love is often over.
For women, after an act of sex, love often begins.
Conspiracy subtext: sex is my way of apologizing
At night. You had a fight with him. In your opinion, he is too uncalled for, refusing to admit his mistake, and playfully carrying you towards the bed. You can’t let him get away with it easily. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In his opinion, wives need to be coaxed, and there are no minor conflicts of principle between husband and wife. How to coax? The best way to win is to be gentle and hard on your wife in bed.
Many men rely on this tactic because every man is convinced that if he satisfies his wife in bed, she won’t be pestered about trivial things. The second is that men are good at saving face, and it is easier for them to accept it through “sexual reconciliation”.
Subtext of the conspiracy: If you’re not happy here, you’re happy there
In In a relationship pattern where women are strong and men are weak, he needs to comfort or soothe his wounded ego through sexual bravery, so even if sex becomes a performance, he is happy to do it, he needs to find a sense of androgynous greatness through sex.
At this point, if you can’t accept his sexual antics, you might want to sort out his inner loss together for him. This is actually a long indication that he is full of insecurities about your relationship, and your gentle soothing and affirmation of him is a flavor of snow melt for his anxiety.
Conspiracy subtext: a different kind of revenge lust
This is the time when men, sex often becomes a way to vent stress and sadness. You have destroyed his hope in life, so he has to take sexual revenge to comfort his wounded heart. Sex, in the rituals of a man’s life, sometimes points to joy, sometimes to violence, and not getting it, he would rather destroy it.
Of course don’t believe him that this is the last time, because mixed with desperation and passion, he tends to lust after you even more, and the last time is just a beautiful excuse.
So, when you encounter this situation, you should say no firmly, just like “divorce, don’t come back to me”, you have no reason to give him one last time.
Conspiracy subtext: Honey, it’s time for a change
He brought home some erotica, and it was as if an erotica viewing program had begun in the house, with him talking about which heroine was so open and how she was so flamboyant in bed.
A man’s sex has to keep up with the times, but he sometimes wants to be the sexual protagonist, with each innovation pre-designed by himself and then the heroine dutifully cooperating.
Conspiracy subtext: I just want my own pleasure
He softly and affectionately asks you to have a fish-out-of-water session with him The warm smile you can’t refuse as you ask you to have a fish-out-of-water session with him. You love him too, so of course it’s not a good idea to refuse. But you disagree on the issue of wearing condoms. You think you should wear a condom so you can protect yourself.
But he doesn’t want to wear one, thinking it interferes with pleasure. You argued, and finally his words immediately softened your heart when he said, “Don’t you still trust me? Don’t you love me enough? The result was that you got pregnant. In that frightening day, you were screaming in pain on the operating table. Why do men often use love as an excuse to satisfy their own selfish interests in sex?
There is no need to discuss how important sex is in a man’s life. So many men sometimes don’t even value sexual safety in the pursuit of the ultimate pleasure.
They don’t realize that women need to protect themselves more than men do, and they simply ignore this in favor of their own pleasure. In a way, many men often turn into selfish Don Juan’s above sex. In this regard, there is nothing to say. A man who does not know how to protect a woman, there is no need for you to cherish? At this point, what you need to do is to protect your self first, even if you leave him.
Conspiracy subtext: wife, tomorrow I want to buy a car
blowing pillow talk The first thing he did was to say that it was not just for women, of course, but for men to use it well and be just as invincible. In sex, sometimes, he may focus only on himself, but this time, he must have forgotten about himself.
In his opinion, if he makes a woman comfortable in bed, then all the requests that are not easy to ask for in real life will now be successful. Whether or not to agree to his pillow request depends on whether you feel regret afterwards. If it’s a harmless request, say yes and enjoy the courtesy of a queen for a while.
Conspiracy subtext: use you to test my charm factor
Some You can say he is not confident in himself, so he only proves himself in this way; you can also say he is morally corrupt and treats women like clothes, putting them on and taking them off.
But the rule that does circulate in male culture is that the man who subjugates many of the opposite sex is morally harmless, and is instead applauded and envied by his brothers. With such a man, there is only one thing you have to do: be determined to keep his sexual machinations at bay.