Who says only women are experts in love, only women are delicate in their feelings, and if you take a closer look, you will slowly experience the 6 lessons of love that men teach you.
Lesson 1: Love is not all of life
For women The most important thing is that the woman’s love is always a big deal, and it is known all over the world; most of the women also pour out all their feelings. But men can be different, even in the heat of the moment, they will have the ability to be ruthlessly six-deep and concentrate on the matter at hand.
Men are too uncaring, or so you might think, and sometimes you’re mad at him for postponing your date again because of other things. In fact, they are just more practical and know that there are many more important things in real life than love, like work, like money, and like his brothers ……
Remember: he doesn’t mean to disdain your existence at all.
Lesson 2: Be Quiet in Moderation
Many women
There are many women who tend to make the mistake of rambling on for hours about the big and small things in their lives, regardless of their friendship with each other, and regardless of whether the other person is interested or not.
Yes, women like and are good at sharing their secrets, but no matter how big or small, right or wrong, revealing your secrets to him when you don’t know him well will only make you boring, trivial and mysterious in a man’s eyes, which will be the end of the relationship.
In fact, more men love to brag to women about all the good things they have to offer, so just listen. Because he just wants you to “adore” him, remember to give him a look of affirmation from time to time ……
< strong>Lesson 3: Private love affairs do not need to talk to your girlfriends
In addition to the fact that women sometimes share their hearts with the men they first meet wishfully, there is something fatally wrong with being too open and honest with your sisters, almost to the point of Nothing is left to talk about, from a lover’s childhood nickname, to kissing techniques, and even …… are all topics of small talk with each other.
But have women ever thought that sharing these intimate affairs with their friends will most likely cast a shadow over your relationship with him? On the one hand, it will make him feel uncomfortable that his privacy is known and everything is not hidden, a kind of betrayal and betrayal; in addition, perhaps originally you do not care so much, but because of hearing friends add vinegar to say: “Yes, he is really difficult to please” and feel worse. The fact that you are not supposed to tolerate things, but are comforted by your friend’s kind words, makes you even less determined to solve the problem.
Buddies don’t have to “talk about everything” either.
Lesson 4: Be straightforward
When men and women are in a relationship, getting to know each other is definitely something both genders strive for. It is definitely something that both genders strive for, but men and women focus on understanding each other in opposite ways. Women want to know, why did he call at night and not at noon? Why did he invite me to the movies? Is there a special reason for saying that?
What men want to know are the facts as opposed to the woman’s wild speculation; how old are you, are you single? Are you free on Saturday night? Do you want to see me? Do you love me? Many women call men’s straightforward decisions, blunt statements of opinion, etc. cold and heartless, which is unfair. In fact, men see things more like a car on the road, their usual way of thinking is from A to B, straight and rarely off track.
If a man asks you to watch a movie, don’t start by thinking about whatever symbolism it implies, just think about why he asked you to watch it and not someone else. Nine times out of ten, it’s because he loves you and likes you, that’s all.
Lesson 5: Cut the Gordian knot
Breakup should be The breakup should be quick and never delayed. This sentence does not mean that “men are afraid of commitment”, the fact is that “men are afraid to make a commitment to the conversation is not their destiny of the woman”. Before a man enters a stable relationship, he always asks himself: does she meet my needs? How well do they work together sexually? Financially, is she self-sufficient?
If the answer to all of these questions is no, he’s not going to waste his time playing hard to get with you, and nine times out of ten he’s going to back off and keep going. The first thing you need to do is to go ahead and look for someone on the road to love. Never like women, obviously see each other’s inappropriate, or bull’s-eye, a desire to transform each other. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Lesson 6: Falling out of love is not the end of the world
This is not to say that men Cold-blooded and heartless, unable to feel the seven emotions. The woman will be sad to lose love, will cry to black out; the realm of some women will not enter the water for a few days. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Part of the reason why men are so open-minded is attributable to general biobehavioral responses. According to experts, “Psychologically, men are more likely than women to have the mental chemistry to overcome pain.” In addition to the psychological differences, of course men recover faster on the way to falling out of love. They know they will eventually fall in love again, the sky is the limit, not to mention, the most practical way to heal is to fall in love with another person again as soon as possible.