Two people’s mutual respect is the basis for keeping love and marriage beautiful, this respect should not only be put in the heart, but also in the language, respect is trust, like trying to hold up a handful of fine sand, pinch too tightly will often leak from the fingers, gently hold up to make it complete. The man’s psyche has some things that he does not want to mention, and women sometimes always complain that men are unreasonable, but have not thought that they mentioned the things he does not want to mention?
1. Don’t criticize his mother to her face, it will hurt his feelings
Wives who are quick to say “What about your mother ……” and “I’m much better than your mother” are intimidating to husbands, and remember, never try to act more virtuous than his mother.
2. Don’t tease him about his “romantic views”
Don’t tease him about his “romantic views”, it hurts his self-esteem.
3. Don’t make his eating habits or bad habits the topic of public conversation
What he confides in you is not for you to advertise to your neighbors or friends. Men are most wary of their partners mentioning their “secrets”, especially their bad habits, in front of their friends on a regular basis. The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what you’re doing.
4. Don’t compliment another man on his flaws; he will feel looked down upon and taunted
Men are often insecure about the same sex, and if you compare him to another man by mentioning his strengths, it may make him uneasy. So try to compare your husband to other men as little as possible, and make him feel better about himself than other men.
5. If he looks twice at a beautiful woman and you sneer at her, he will be extremely upset
5. INDENT:2em”>Every man loves a beautiful woman, whether he admits it on his lips or not. The smart woman will be so spurred boyfriend, take the initiative to point to pick up a beautiful woman asked boyfriend: she is not beautiful? (Don’t ask, is she prettier than me? Remember!) The correction will be better than the Jeon Ji Hyun set.
6. Don’t endlessly talk him into getting a promotion or “jumping ship”
6. ALIGN:left;TEXT-INDENT:2em”>Obviously, women who think this way often have a strong sense of vanity, the so-called “husband glory and wife”; in addition, they often have a strong attachment to the psychology, the so-called “only the vine wrapped around the tree, where there is a tree wrapped around the vine “. In order to meet their vanity and dependence, they do not hesitate to put all kinds of pressure on their husbands. Of course, there is nothing wrong with encouraging your husband to strive for excellence, but if you do not create pressure according to the actual situation, it may be counterproductive. In a word: women who force their husbands to become dragons are too stupid.
7. Don’t talk about what “role” men have in the family
7. ALIGN:left;TEXT-INDENT:2em”>Don’t talk about what “role” men play in the home because they still subconsciously believe that housework undermines the dignity of the male “husband.