We often hear or know what women want, what they want to hear, or many other opinions about how to meet or please women’s demands. And what about men? We rarely get to know what men want to hear from women.
Women often ask questions about men’s emotional needs and often make it less characteristic for men to have something on their minds, and arguably they do it all the time. Evolutionary psychology demonstrates this in a different way.
Men have emotional needs, too, though not as much as women. Before we consider what your man wants to hear from you, let’s first consider what are the most important factors in communicating appropriately and listening effectively. While we’re talking about what your man wants to hear from you, we’re also trying to determine when he wants to communicate.
Even if it might be on rare occasions, determine if you can already sense what he wants to hear from you. God gave us all two ears and one mouth, so we can hear twice as much as we can say. Effective listening will familiarize you with the warning signs that tell you that his emotional needs are not being met.
Women, you often ask your men to be more in touch with their own emotions, well, come on, here’s what they want to hear from you.
1. “I will support you in any endeavor you make.”
We’ve all heard the saying that behind every great man there’s always an even greater woman. We’re not asking you to stay behind the man, but there’s a song that says, “Support your man,” and that’s what we’re asking. Support what we’re starting to achieve now, and you’ll be amazed at what we do when the woman we love accepts and encourages us in any way. In doing the next thing, we want women to continue to do that.
2. “I accept you and all that you are!”
Acceptance from a lover outside of our immediate family is, for most of us, the essence of a romantic relationship. However, many relationships just break down for one reason: because neither party accepts each other in any way shape or form. Don’t cry, and don’t try to change him. Accept him as a person or find someone more suitable. Think of him as a “pet project” in which you put your passion into transforming him so that he can improve, both emotionally and physically (more likely the former).
3. “Baby, we’re on the same team!”
A romantic relationship much like any other should be built on a solid foundation of communication, shared mission, and perspective. It’s a harsh world out there, and it’s looking harsher and harsher. Just because we’re men doesn’t mean every little bit of pressure has to be on us, even if sometimes we insist on taking that pressure. Sometimes we just want to hear you say the things that can lead to a chain of unfathomable things that, if properly developed, will be unbreakable.
4. “You’re hot (that’s what I mean)!”
Let’s face it – everyone – men and women – want to be tested, to be tested and to be reassured that not only did you pass, but that onlookers approve of you and think you’re You’re good. In fact, this feeling is different from many others, but casual and natural words like “Baby, you’re hot today” are much better than the common “I love you” or the hopefully not monotonous “You look good”. I love you” or the hopefully not so monotonous “you look good”.
5. “I love you no matter what.”
It’s become an expectation to hear someone you love (especially so-and-so) say “I love you”. It’s very common, and in a certain context, saying it too much can become a burden. Do all those who have said this know the hidden meaning? Are our standards of love lowering in this achingly globalized age? In many social programs, men must play and follow their roles and tasks. We are forced to make great efforts, and at great risk. We feel the need to do all these things, while behind our ideas lies the possibility of failure. Most men believe that everyone wants to hear what their loved one has to say and to feel loved in whatever situation they are in, even if they suffer a failure. This is the hallmark of unconditional love – the only form of love that is most real and arguable.
It’s hard to say most of these things honestly in terms of how a woman views her existing relationships. However, the idea of saying them out loud may test and determine if your existing relationships are what you think they are.