Men are indeed very complex and changeable “animals” that spend their lives running around. The man is constantly creating thoughts in his mind in order to reflect his value. The secret is the nanny of the man’s growth, but also nourish the nutrients of the man’s soul. The man’s heart will be empty without secrecy, and will feel depleted.
Men can’t live without secrecy. And these secrets are the unspoken rules of the men’s world for the men’s gang. Now let’s look through those subtle rules of the love world when men pursue women.
One of the unspoken rules: no phone call for 7 days means no interest
You have a great first date with the man of your choice, and after the date, you get a silence, which makes you very confused. Why didn’t he call you? After seven days of silence, perhaps you helped him find excuses like “he really wanted to call me, but he lost my number” or “he was really too busy”. Honey, don’t be kind enough to help him make up a reason, and don’t waste time waiting for him to suddenly come around and call you. The man knows the rules of the game better than the woman, within three days he did not call you, indicating that you are not the opposite sex he likes, within five days to prove that he does not want to have a relationship with you over time, seven days, I’m sorry, he really is not interested in you.
The second rule of subterfuge: replying to a message with more than 30 words is a sure thing
You don’t think he’s trying to make the most of the 10 cents to say so many words to you happily, do you? This type of man is usually not good at taking the initiative, but as long as you ask, they always have time, you need help, they happen to have friends in this area. Even your usual greeting, he expressed some insights. In addition to replies of more than 30 words, they like to send you the last sentence with a question mark, and he hates to send text messages until dawn as long as you don’t want to end them. Clearly, he wants to take things further with you.
Subliminal rule #3: play “evaporate” from time to time
Men are sometimes willing to be this way with women: he conquers you with his attentiveness and charm, so you can’t forget his energy and fun, and you can’t help but miss him, but he seems to evaporate. There is time not to contact you. When he shows up again, he is still as funny and cute as ever. Even though you’ve heard he has a bad reputation, you can’t help but trust him. He can respond to anything you say to make you happy and make you feel really happy with him. Even he said recklessly that I just like women, you also feel that this is his true rate of flash personality. He is always unique in your relationship world, full of magic. Although sometimes you have realized that he is not the only one, but obsessed with him incorrigible. Because it’s easy for men to play both sides of the fence. So you must not take it seriously, you have to learn to hide your desires and emotions, keep your mystery, which will make you more attractive. The more urgent the other person is, the more lighthearted you have to be. Instead of holding on to yourself, let him be anxious.
Subliminal rule #4: Break up cold
Why do men choose this type of breakup? One is because it’s an easy way to get away. Breaking up in person or over the phone is undoubtedly a pain. Who wants to fight? Most men don’t want to have an emotional confrontation with a woman. For men, a breakup is a million unanswerable “whys” and tons of tears for women. They are at their wits’ end, so they think it’s better for both parties to avoid a fight. There are also practical reasons why men don’t want to break up with women straight away. They give themselves leeway to come back into your life when he’s lonely. Men know that as long as the interval is not too long, all he needs to do is apologize for not calling, make some beautiful lies about his recent whereabouts, and then invite her out for fun, then in the blink of an eye, she is back in his arms. The first thing that you need to do is to understand the hints of a man’s breakup, respect yourself and be determined not to fall in love with such a man again. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Subliminal Rule #5: Thanking you is not the same as loving you
Women are soft-hearted creatures, and tend to think The man’s good and moved feelings. But when a man chooses a woman who is good to him, it is usually when no better option comes along. If you can enjoy your uncompromising care, why do you want to live alone? In love, the man who says sorry to you is just to admit that he was wrong, and the man who says thank you just wants you to know that he appreciates your feelings.
The sixth rule of subterfuge: it can be a lover rather than a close friend
At first he will be interested in your life, work, friends, but when he is familiar with everything about you, in turn, want to pull away a little, even if it is like a lover as if it were. The woman, on the contrary, likes to shake a drop of chicken with her boyfriend. It is not necessary to let him know too much about your details, there is a secret woman is an attractive woman. The first thing you want to do is to tell him, “Honey, I want to be quiet for a while,” or “Honey, tell me what interesting things happened at work today.