Being single for too long and lacking the feeling of being loved for too long changes the entire mood and state of the person. What exactly are the negative effects of that, let’s see together.
1. You find faults in all men
Another negative effect of being single for too long is being overly picky. You find faults in every man around you, when in reality most of your criticism has little basis in reality. Even in men of good character, you can be fussy: not dressing tastefully enough, having large pores, not watching entertainment news, being frugal with money ……
Perhaps you’ve developed the illusion that you’re a superior critic. More likely, you are afraid to pursue the opposite sex and therefore use these pretentious nitpicks as an excuse.
2. Shy around the opposite sex
The best explanation for why you don’t interact with the opposite sex is that you don’t know how to conduct yourself around them. When you gaze at them and they catch your gaze, you feel like you’re not pleasing them, you’re repelling them.
When you’ve just spent some time with a member of the opposite sex, you end up with outrageous practices that result in the relationship, such as asking him to send you tight underwear on the third date (so much so that you forget the normal steps of relationship progression).
If that wasn’t outrageous enough, you started treating your opposite sex harshly. In front of your friends, you boss him around just to prove to others that you can handle your boyfriend.
As it happens again and again, real desperation comes to you.
3. Always overthinking
Unfortunately, you live in the vain imagination that all men love you. Every ordinary interaction with the opposite sex is given a special meaning by you.
The waiter at the drive-thru hands you a burger and fries and says, “Have a nice day.” What you hear is, “I want you now.” When the man in the elevator gives you one more look at the rice crumbs on your lips, you feel a soul-communicating, passionate stare and immediately start fantasizing about an erotic scene between the two of you in the closet.
Every friendly gesture and polite nod makes you feel loved, and it seems like you’re winning every round. However, look at the ace in your hand, it’s just a small jack.
4. People think you’re gay
You never hang around men or show interest in them, and people think you have another sexual orientation because of it. You probably noticed that your best friend started hanging out with her gay cousin, and people always leave you two alone together.
Don’t storm out and try to get some kind of argument. What do you expect people to think when you spend all your time spending time with your best friend instead of dating men?
5. Look to technology
You’ve given up on the idea of finding a real-life male as a partner and hope that globally advanced science and technology will bring one to you. You follow every little development in the field of bioengineering with great interest. In fact, haven’t you already done a lot of your own blueprinting on a napkin?
You may be aware of this hidden desire, though generally it is hidden in the subconscious. Be sure to change such thoughts, it is not healthy.
6. Indulging in love soap operas
Admit that your greatest entertainment is love soap operas right? Imagine yourself as the female first with the perfect love ending.
It’s time to adjust your preferences. When cheating entertainment eats away at all your leisure, it has dangerous repercussions.
7. Manly woman strong woman
After being single for a long time, you will become more and more independent and become a strong woman. All sorts of life’s minutiae have to be left to their own devices. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. This is enough to turn off any member of the opposite sex.
8. Desperation
Being alone is bad, and desperation is even worse. There are signs that despair, like a giant mutant octopus, is coiling up in your head. Wanting an E-mail mail-order boyfriend is an extreme example of this. No matter what you think, it’s not really romantic at all.
There are certainly some other potential signs. There is no doubt that having an inflatable doll as a companion is one. You should clearly realize that you can’t go on like this.