The feeling of love, some people like to say it, but some people like to show it with actions. Love psychologists point out that a man’s love for you can be observed in its daily details, such as whether he is sensitive to changes in your clothing, whether he takes the initiative to introduce you to his friends, and so on, which are all signs of a man’s love for a woman.
Love is a two-way street, that is, both loving and being loved at the same time, so that love is happy and fulfilling. Therefore, when we choose love, in addition to you love him, we should also know whether he loves you. Only those who love you will be willing to accept your love and your choice. Otherwise, you will hit the nail on the head if you rashly court.
Psychology believes that human emotions are “in the heart and outward”, that is, love, hate, worry, resentment, joy, anger and other emotions are entirely internal experiences. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the actual situation.
Therefore, to find out if the other person loves you, you can follow the principles revealed by psychology to see the shape and know the heart. You can observe and understand from the following aspects.
He has been conquered by you! 10 signs that a man loves you
(1) Does he often intend to be with you, or often find some kind of excuse to be close to you, and always seem pleasant when he is with you? Young people tend to have strong self-esteem, courting without getting a good feeling from the other party, fearing rejection and frustration of self-esteem. It is women, shy of directly confessing their hearts, often take subtle forms of expressing their good feelings and fondness for the opposite sex, finding excuses to approach each other, hiding the motivation to approach actively because of their fondness.
(2) Is he willing to help you? Whenever you need help, does he silently appear before you. This shows that he cares about you from time to time and wants to gain your goodwill by helping you.
(3) Does he often ask about what’s going on with you? For example, what did you do last Sunday, do you have any activities this weekend, etc. He puts his feelings on you to be so concerned about your movements and wants you to invite him to your events.
(4) Does he take to heart what you casually say or reveal about your preferences, and brings it up from time to time, trying to satisfy your preferences? If he likes you, he is interested in everything you say and adapts to your preferences.
(5) Is there a tendency to be close to you in terms of interests? The fact that he tries to participate in what you are interested in and shows enthusiasm shows that he is taking the initiative to adapt to you in order to shorten the distance with you in terms of interests.
(6) Is he willing to introduce you to his friends and family? Taking the initiative to introduce you to friends and family means that you have a very important place in his heart and have deeper feelings.
(7) Is there a strong desire to know about your family and learn about your family situation? Having a good feeling about you is bound to be interested in your family. At the same time, it is also trying to further deepen his understanding of you by learning about your family, and in addition is suggesting to you that he cares about you and your family.
(8) Is he sensitive to your various changes? He is always sensitive to changes in your outfit and usually issues a complimentary comment, “This is a beautiful dress”; he will remind you when a button falls off. These attention to detail show how much he cares about you.
(9) Does he remember your birthday and congratulate you on it, or give you a gift of your choice? You have not actively told him your birthday, but he congratulates you on your birthday or gives you a gift you like, etc.. This shows that he cares about everything about you and is actively looking for every opportunity to get your attention and show that he cares about you.
(10) When he receives your letter, does he write back quickly and does he answer your requests and questions seriously? If you are the one he is interested in, and he was already actively looking for opportunities to approach you, then when he sees your letter, even if he is busy, he will take the time to write back in time and answer your requests or questions (unless they are difficult to answer) seriously.
If the person you want shows any of these signs, don’t hesitate to take action as soon as possible, take the right approach, and choose the right time to show your love and open up your heart to him.