Some people say that a woman’s greatest pursuit is to marry a good man. Although this statement is too arbitrary, it also really reflects the importance of marrying a good husband for women. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on this. Some people say to have a car and a house, some people say to be tall and handsome, I believe that these do not need to make up more words. The next thing I want to say is something invisible and unseen – let’s talk about how to identify the character of a more reliable man.
One, the parents are not filial, so don’t expect him to be good to you
The old saying goes, “Filial piety and fraternal duty are also the essence of benevolence and benevolence!” No matter to whom, our parents are the people closest to us, the people who give the most for us, and the people who love us the most. If a man can’t even understand his parents’ love, can’t even discover such a heavy contribution, then how can we expect him to discover our contribution and then return it to us? A man grows up, he will realize that he should give his parents long to give some return, although it does not have to be material, may be more time, more energy, but as long as he does, it means he is no longer everywhere only for their own sake, is no longer controlled by their own rebellious mentality. And only such a man is a man who can really be counted on.
II. If the kids don’t like it, don’t expect him to like you
For immature men, children can cause them a lot of trouble. They come alive and make constant trouble when they are happy, cry and cry when they are unhappy, and still end up making constant trouble. But for mature men, they will understand the weakness of children, they will understand the reasons for their capriciousness and will tolerate them, understand them and protect them. And we women, many times with children is very similar, vulnerable, tough, capricious, but need to understand, tolerance, protection, all this, is not the same with children? The woman must be a mature male, only such a male, only know how to take care of us, in our happy when we play with us, in our unhappy when comfort us. And liking children is the most important characteristic of such a mature man.
Three, flabby man, only not worth your love
A man may fill many roles in society, but if he is our significant other, he will only need to fill one role, except that it will take many great traits to play that role well.
First, he must be able to be trusted and relied upon. Every man carries his own responsibilities, more or less, but these responsibilities cannot be shirked, he cannot retreat, cannot be cowardly, he must face, take on, and solve. A mature man, he will really understand this, he will not go to escape, but will be these responsibilities as their own forward momentum, take the initiative to carry them firmly on the shoulders. Only in the face of such a man, our trust and reliance will not fall short. Only such a man can be truly resolute, brave, decisive, calm and patient.
In this regard, men with younger siblings are at an advantage. Although the existence of a younger sibling is not by their own choice, although the initial responsibility was only by necessity, although maybe he hated his sibling for many years, the habits, the abilities they have developed over the years will make them more able to take charge, as well as stand up for themselves and face problems.
On the other hand, men who grow up with their dads tend to be more masculine. They are stronger and more go-getter. With the influence of his father over the years, he knows better how to take on and persevere as a man. Therefore, they are also more cautious about love, but more attentive. What they can give us is a real heartfelt love. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Lastly, men who have had a rougher road growing up also have more qualities that are superior to others. A number of hardships have made them more appreciative and more capable of surviving more hardships. The reason why they have come this far and have been patient and strong, which must have a different reason than ordinary people, and this is where he deserves the most high hopes. In their vision, which is free of pettiness, impatience, fear and pomposity, we can also clearly see our own future and his.
Whether a man is good and dependable should really depend more on his future, while his character largely determines their future. If a man really has these excellent qualities, his future is really to be expected, and you should only look forward to your future with him.