When women are looking for a boyfriend or husband they always want the other side to be more mature because women expect romance in love and a commitment in marriage. Many women often complain why their men are always like a child who never grows up, it is because the maturity of the man needs time and experience to accumulate, but also need you and him together to cultivate. So what to do when faced with an immature man?
1. Women don’t need to force men to mature
Men It is a more naive creature than women, for example, girls steal their mother’s high heels when they are very young, but men are still addicted to CS, World of Warcraft, and chasing the King of Thieves when they are adults. Women always hope that men can grow up and mature as soon as possible, but men’s growth is forced by society, in order to obtain the continuation of life, they have to get married to form a family. So it’s not surprising that men retain some of the characteristics of young boys when they reach adulthood.
2. Smart women treat men like sons
Since men Inherently childish, then a smart woman should make good use of this childish nature of his and educate the man as if he were a son. For example, when he does something right, women must give sincere praise, if he kindly do the wrong thing, it must also praise his motives, must not discourage his enthusiasm. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. Teach men to encourage rather than blame
A A successful mother, when she wants her child to do something, makes sure to tell him how important it is, and whether he does it well or not, he should be told that it has been great. This method of education is also applicable to men. For example, when confronted with a man who can’t wash the dishes, his wife should not accuse him too much, but praise him with some sweet words for taking the initiative to do the dishes, or at least tell him that you appreciate his thoughtfulness, which will be much more effective.
4. Women must make themselves better
Although We say to treat men like sons, but this does not mean that you should be an old mother, which will only make men lose interest in you completely. To educate a man well, a woman must make herself better. Men are curious and lazy creatures, and it must be the woman who creates surprises for life. You can make him a fresh dish now and then, or take him to a fun place, or you can prepare a set of erotic lingerie …… This will make the man feel a great surprise, and the two people’s feelings will naturally become increasingly sweet.