Although men always show off their natural qualities of being fearless and not panicking in the face of anything, they are also human and they can shake at times ……
During sex, if a man suddenly feels panicked and overwhelmed The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you are doing something wrong. So what usually pushes a man’s sexual panic button, and how can you avoid this awkward moment?
NO.1 Fear of your lack of response
Sex is the most intimate exchange of feelings and bodies between lovers, a dialogue between the mind and the body at the same time. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. If you stay silent and let him sweat as much as he wants, as if he is left in the sun, he will feel that your silence is a protest, dissatisfaction or inattentiveness.
Peter, a 30-year-old writer, said, “Sometimes my girlfriend and I have sex suddenly don’t make any sound, and I think I must be doing a bad job. So I start to ramble and wonder what I’m doing wrong, and that puts me in no mood at all.” Some men say they feel fear when a woman’s body stops swaying to their rhythm, like a desperate swim in an ocean of unknown depths.
Mike, a 27-year-old teacher, said, “Sometimes we choose kind of a great position and feel completely integrated with each other, with no reservations, but then she suddenly doesn’t move and I feel weird and just want to call it quits.”
Believe it or not, sometimes it’s your neglect that makes your man lose interest in an instant. Dr. Schiller says, “Deep down a man is always worried about not satisfying his woman. If he does not understand your reaction in time, he will immediately doubt himself. The best thing to do is to be true to how you feel.
If you like it, feel free to let out a happy whisper or gently tap him on the shoulder. If yelling isn’t your style, then sway your body to his rhythm, like dancing a waltz to his tune, and your spin will be the source of his momentum.”
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NO.2 What’s the point of having so many contraceptives
Buying back dozens of food and toilet paper from the grocery store proves you know how to live your life, but don’t carry home so many contraceptives, or at least receive them in a more secure place.
Jack, 24, said, “When I first met her, everything was going well. I asked her if she had any condoms, and she pulled several dozen condoms of various brands out of her nightstand drawer and asked me what texture, smell and size I liked. I almost passed out. It’s no big deal to have a few condoms on hand, but it’s enough to open a brothel like she did.”
It’s not that only men should have them, it’s just that you should be careful to keep your inventory under control. In a man’s mind, “If I see she has a little box with some protection in it, I’ll think she’s being responsible. Conversely if I see her with a big box, I’ll think how many other guys she’s been with.”
NO.3 Menstrual phobia
No matter what men say, they lose their senses at the sight of blood. 25-year-old welder Mark said, “I found her dripping blood one time when I was having sex with her, and she had just had her period, and it was like a big shock, and I just couldn’t do it at once. ”
Dr. Schiller said, “A lot of men think blood is unclean and a harmful substance. If you’re not sure how he’s going to reflect, it’s best to ask around beforehand.”
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NO.4 Heard about your past
Lying in bed you have a lot to share: stories to tell, massages, ice cream.
But don’t tell him how great your past boyfriend was in bed. 30-year-old scientist Jerry said, “I was with my girlfriend once, and she told me about how hot my ex-boyfriend looked, and in great detail, even where he had a hemorrhoid. Why do I need to know this? Then every time I had sex with her another shadow would come to mind, always seemingly other men were fitter and more pleasing to her than me.”
You should talk to him like a good friend or a parent. It’s enough to let him know that you’ve been in a relationship before, and keep those details to yourself.
NO.5 Keep him off your vitals
Most men love to kiss a woman’s body, including the most private parts, and your refusal will only cause him to be suspicious. 30-year-old filmmaker Jason says, “Every time I try to get to her vitals, she always holds me back.
I was hurt.” Peggy explained, “It’s not surprising that men like to do things that are new to women. When a woman refuses to accept, a man feels that she is actually still holding back what is most precious to him, refusing to give him her full self.”
Whether you’re embarrassed or not in the mood, you have to choose the best way to communicate with him. Don’t be raw and push him aside or reject him out of hand; try to touch him passionately and naturally guide him to make love the way you like.
NO.6 Dilly-dallying
Do you always find excuses to hide in the bathroom to fix your makeup on a date? You know what men think about this? 29-year-old graduate student Mickey said, “On the first date with her, she ran to the bathroom. I waited outside for ages, even finished reading a magazine, and she still hadn’t come out.
I started wondering what the hell she was doing in there. Did she fall? After another 15 minutes she came back and nothing seemed to have happened. Everything felt wrong to me after that.”
There’s only one way to avoid getting him rambling, whether you’re grooming yourself in the bathroom or getting ready for something, don’t dawdle too much. And it’s best to tell him what you’re doing.