Body language is really amazing! 70% of what’s in a man’s heart has to be expressed physically!
1. He’s lying with a fake smile piled on his face
Smiles have the magic power to bring people closer together and turn two strangers into friends in an instant. In addition, smiling has a particularly important role to play. Scientific studies have confirmed that the more a man smiles, the more likely he is to be believed, so to cover themselves up, men are extremely good at using the magic of danger, and they usually pile on the fake smiles when they lie.
It’s not hard to spot a fake smile. The average real smile lasts between 2/3 and 4 seconds, and when a man’s smile lasts longer than 6 seconds, he’s definitely hiding something from you! In addition, people in the fake smile, the face on both sides of the expression will have a slight asymmetry, people who are used to using the right hand, the left corner of the mouth higher, while the “left-handed” will be in the fake smile to the right corner of the mouth higher! When you see a man with a fake smile on his face, you have to think about whether he is hiding something from you.
2. His speech suddenly speeds up and he’s not sure about what he’s saying
Suddenly his speech speeds up, which means he’s not sure about what he’s saying! The subconscious, when a man encounters a topic he doesn’t want to talk about or when he finds out certain facts, the man has the idea of “I wish time would hurry up and pass” and he wants the listener to end the conversation immediately so as to end his embarrassment and unease.
If you notice that he suddenly raises the speed and pitch of his voice when he is arguing something to hide his inner turmoil, remind him in a soft tone to take his time and see how he reacts. If a man still can’t resist speeding up his speech, then the man definitely has something to hide from you. Only by leaving yourself plenty of time to think can you find the cracks in his words!
3. He gently shook his head that he was interested in you
Generally people think that shaking your head means no means no, but in fact, shaking your head means more than that! Psychologists believe that head shaking is an innate human action. When a mother feeds her baby, the baby needs to shake its head from side to side to get more milk. If a man shakes his head unconsciously while talking to you, it shows that you are reminding him of the childhood satisfaction of suckling at the breast.
Research has found that this strong mental cue is often a prelude to the beginning of love! So when you find the man across from you shaking his head at you in a subtle way, don’t assume he’s upset about something.
4. The number of times he slows down his blink he decides to tell the truth
“Your eyes have betrayed you” is a phrase that appears in many contexts, and many people habitually utter that phrase when they catch someone lying. The eyes are the windows to the soul, and many people can’t help but blink when they lie. Slowing down the blink is a way for women to add to their self-appeal, and when a man wants to express his true thoughts, he will use slowing down the blink and slowing down his speech to get your attention.
Lengthening the blink is a habit of upper-class English-speaking people and is now widely used in Asia. If you notice a significant slowing of his blink, hold your breath and listen carefully, maybe the key to what’s going on will be revealed soon!
5. He rubs his ears with his hands as he begins to wander
The gesture of rubbing one’s ears indicates that the action person is trying to stop a conversation they are already bored with. Elementary school students who get bored sitting in class subconsciously plug their ears with their hands and then take the opportunity to run away, and rubbing their ears is the adult version of this body language. Because men can’t plug their ears in front of you out of politeness, the plugging evolved into a light rubbing of the ears.
At this point, you need to be aware if you are talking about a duller topic or if it has been going on too long. When you notice a man acting this way, hand him a glass of water at the right time and ask him to put his hands off his ears… it might change his attitude for a while!
6. Driving Style
The cars a man drives and the way he drives reflect his performance in bed. A man’s driving habits will indicate the extent to which he fantasizes about himself sexually. Driving that bright red sports car indicates a man who is self obsessed and unsure of himself. This kind of man just wants to satisfy himself when he has sex, and he simply ignores your sexual demands.
A man who is confident in his ability to have sex will drive a very hip, luxurious, but stable car because he is concerned about the comfort of his passengers. The kind of very agitated male driver, for example, who honks and curses a lot, will do the same when it comes to sex, completely ignoring his partner as long as his sexually demanding purpose is achieved.
7. Eating
Eating also reflects the state of a man’s sex life. In fact, how he eats reflects this more than what he eats. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market. If he gobbles up all the food without chewing and savoring it, it also means how he will treat you in bed.
All he wants is instant gratification, regardless of how much he likes the food or the intricacies of how it was made. As long as he has a full belly, all is well.
Men who eat barbecue and use a knife and fork are usually more feminine. The best lovers are men who eat very intently, pay attention to flavor, and often ask if you like it too.
8. Workout style
A man who works out regularly is also a good thing for you. A fat man wouldn’t make a good lover, and you certainly don’t want a man lying around who’s a wimp who’s out of breath when it’s time for sex! Working out will make him enhance his bedside manner and have the energy and interest to experiment with various positions of sex.
But for the kind of man who works out non-stop and only knows how to exercise it goes to the extreme. Running, lifting weights, and other forms of exercise for long periods of time each week can lead to an excessive focus on self. A good sex life is obtained by caring for the other person as much as possible and considering her sexual feelings. Be especially careful of men who are only concerned with self and not with their partners.
9. Length of kissing
How long a man spends kissing you is how long he will spend in bed arousing your sexual desire. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The shocking thing is that many men don’t know how to kiss.
This is because they never put themselves in the position of the woman. Men seem to be most uncomfortable with “take your time!” Kissing is a prelude to sex, a way to get to know each other, to arouse sexual desire, and to experiment with all kinds of sex.
10. Dress
A man’s clothes may confuse a woman, but dressing only shows how he wants you to see him, not how he really is. If he pays a lot of attention to what you wear, or compliments your outfit often, for example, your hair or shoes, he will be very focused on how you feel in bed. A sloppy man is usually sloppy in bed, too.
But just because a man is covered in name brands doesn’t mean he’s going to be a hundred percent considerate in bed. The best dressed men are often the best lovers, because they pay attention to their appearance and act attractive in every way. A well-dressed man will put you and your sexual requirements first. It’s not good if a man is overly dressed, he can be pedantic and unimaginative in bed.
11. Drinking
No matter how intelligent and attractive a man is, an alcoholic man will eventually cold-cock you and huff and puff. Martini’s alcoholics, alcohol will quickly make them anesthetized. These men get up in the morning and lose their temper, and blame you if they are incompetent in bed. They will blame anyone for anything.
Beer-drinking men are easy to date, but they can also seem socially and sexually immature, making sex uninteresting. What’s even more upsetting is that they keep having to go to the bathroom. Those men who drink dry white wine are the most creative and tender lovers. They will give you the most intense sexual experience. Men who like heavy, dark red wines are very good at sex, passionate, and don’t ejaculate prematurely.
12. He suddenly asks to “try” new ways of making love
Don’t panic, it doesn’t mean there’s an affair. If he’s having an affair with another woman, he’s bound to be cautious in his words and actions and won’t risk trying a new way of making love because it might raise suspicions. Men who want to try something new may have gained new knowledge from the press and television.
Sexologists say that partners have some willingness and some reluctance about how to be in bed. If he has a new idea, why not give it a try? You might get more interest out of it!