A good woman is a school for men, and even an unsuccessful marriage is a practice for men.
The eight value-added points of a divorced uncle
One, he is better at pleasing women.
Good women are a school for men, and even unsuccessful marriages are a practice for men. The various entanglements with the former wife will make the man more aware of what the woman needs and wants. Why do women like to make little sex? What are the special physiological cycles of women? Why do women need more love? The first thing you need to do is to understand this, so the man will be more considerate of the woman.
2. He will become better at solving problems in the marriage.
Perhaps it is the fear of emotional injury, because women are resilient, men seem strong on the outside, but it is difficult to resist emotional frustration; perhaps simply out of cost considerations, he will want to divorce will make himself nothing, so, again, there are conflicts and problems, etc., he will try to solve it; if it can not be solved, he will try to compromise, because in his mind, he wants not to endure the pain of divorce any longer.
Three, he will be more mature.
Nothing makes a man exude maturity more than frustration. In the first marriage, he needs to learn, learn how to get along with women, learn how to do the duties and obligations of a husband, learn how to give a woman a hold, however, the marriage failed, he will have to calm down and reflect on the gains and losses in the marriage. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4. He will be more realistic.
Some people say that when an unmarried man proposes to a girl, all he offers is love and sweet words, but when a divorced man proposes to a girl, all he offers is a house and money. The divorced men may not be romantic enough in their approach to marriage, and may seem a bit mercenary, but this is exactly what makes them wake up from the romance and understand the nature of life better.
V. He is better at coordinating relationships.
A man whose marriage has failed always has the sympathy of those around him. Especially in the eyes of his parents and relatives, he is the one who needs care. It is in the midst of frustration that a man understands more about affection and love. At this point, he is less proud and he focuses on emotional interaction with those around him because he understands that good relationships will guarantee that he will not be alone in any tough times in his life.
Six, he understands better the importance of independence.
Do you crave passionate love? Most women would answer yes without hesitation. But if a man doesn’t allow you to associate with other men and desires him to have you alone, will such love suffocate you? Long-term love requires distance, the mutual support of two independent personalities, and men who have been wounded in the passion of their first marriage often therefore understand the importance of independent personalities. In your opinion, he is now the one who is a big tree with lots of leaves, not a vine that needs to be climbed.
VII. He has more sexual experience.
When it comes to choosing a virgin or an experienced man, many women will lean toward the latter. Divorced men know how women need to be caressed, they know how to communicate emotionally, they know how to be gentle and considerate, and divorced men can surprise you from the start.
Eight, most of them have successful careers.
Most divorced men are nearing middle age, and after more than a decade of hard work, many of them are on the rise in their careers. The first wife needs to work hard with him to start the business, while the second wife just needs to “come down and pick the peach” and enjoy it.