Lately, I’ve been hearing too much about life’s winners. Whenever a word starts to be used in a generic way, its supposed praise turns sour. I saw a certain complementary comment that made sense: a winner in life is generally a successful person who never had to struggle or no longer has to struggle. It does not include, those who are diligent, hard-working models of labor. Where there is no need to struggle, more often than not, there is no longer a need to struggle.
In other words, the tired and busy ones don’t win, even if they’re busy.
What are the criteria for being a real winner in life as a married woman?
One: married couple love
Love, that is from the heart The satisfaction. It’s not the kind of thing that makes you look good in front of people and sleep together afterwards. The most important thing is that you can get a good idea of what you are doing. The marriage is free of any hard feelings. There is no third party to interfere, but also can not allow a third party to interfere. When you encounter problems, solve them together. When conflicts occur, everyone is willing to give way immediately. Like a harmonious waltz, ordinary life is all good.
II: Several generations together
The parents are healthy and the children are filial. A married woman only has a husband who loves her a lot is not enough, her true happiness comes from parents who are healthy and do not need special care. Married women are living comfortably again, or hope to have their own children. Then, one side looks at the kind face of parents; the other side looks at the happy smile of children. This is the highest level of life. The joy of having several generations together is unattainable.
Three: Good career
A woman should not give up her career even if she is married. Even if, it’s just a normal, low-paying job. Quitting to become a full-time wife is an indication of not being able to balance family and career. Work is the way to contact the outside world, but also to understand the window of society. We do not require that she has to be a strong woman. At least, you can smoothly 9 to 5. It’s also a reflection of personal value.
Four: BFFs are attentive
Get pampered by men, which is natural for women. To be liked by the same sex – and the like here is talking about being happy to be approached – that’s the greatest charm of a woman. The best friend, said not male best friend. It is, rather, a good friend who can eat and walk and go shopping on the street. They are not only eat, drink and have fun, but also a good partner essential in life. It’s a good idea to have a good time. Each is wonderful, and together they live happily.
Hey, are you a winner in life? If not, keep up the good work!