In the past, when it comes to cheating, people first associate it with men, but in recent years, with the development of society and the development of ideas, cheating has become a common phenomenon. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
But what we have found is that when many women who cheat are discovered, they often cheat on someone they know. So, when married women cheat, why do they always like to find acquaintances to do it? The following 3 women said the big truth.
Why do married women like to find acquaintances when they cheat?
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Ms. Wang: It’s easier to get acquainted with people over time
People often say that problems are most likely to arise between blue friends, and this is well documented in my case, where I cheated on my blue friend.
After I got married, my husband and I have been living an uneventful life, getting together less and leaving more. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Usually when you go out to play or shopping, see other sisters are with their husbands, while I can only go to the appointment alone. The first time I felt nothing, but after a long time I felt like a “light bulb”, very embarrassing, so I thought of my blue friend Wang Tao.
When my husband is not at home on business, as long as I am depressed and unhappy, I will think of Wang Tao, and when I go out shopping without company, I will think of Wang Tao, and when I go out with my sisters to play and party, I will also think of Wang Tao. For a long time, my life has gradually can not leave him, this may be people say that the longevity of love, our relationship has become more and more ambiguous. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Why do married women who cheat like to find acquaintances?
Ms. Zhu: acquaintances are easy to know
Husband has a very good friend Li Wei, they are often inseparable, I sometimes feel that their relationship is better than my relationship with my husband.
There was a time when Li Wei lost his job and was in a depressed state. In order to comfort him, my husband often asked him to come home for dinner, and I became familiar with Li Wei over time.
At first, I thought Li Wei was a nice person, considerate, kind and caring.
The first time I saw this, I noticed that Li Wei was looking at me with some lustful eyes, and I didn’t care, because I was good-looking.
Once, my husband and I had a big fight over work, and Li Wei, as usual, bought some beer and came to us as a mediator. My husband, probably because of his chronic depression, was soon drunk and unconscious, while I told Li Wei about my suffering and he was on hand to comfort me. I suddenly felt that Li Wei was the man who understood me best, so I took advantage of the alcohol and Li Wei did the unruly thing in front of my husband.
After it was over, I didn’t feel the slightest bit guilty or worried, but instead I found it exciting, after all, Li Wei was the one who knew what was going on, and he wouldn’t say anything nonsensical.
The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Why do married women like to find acquaintances when they cheat?
Ms. Liu: Easy to compare acquaintances with husband
Husband has many friends, and when we got married, he often took me to meet some of his friends, hoping that I would fit into his tiktokko in order to know more about him, but what he didn’t know was that I often compared him with some of his friends. I slowly discovered that my husband’s tiktok had a lot of singles, not only handsome, but also very good and responsible, so I sometimes thought that if I had married my husband later, maybe my life would have been happier.
With the contrast, I also feel more stifled inside and feel like I married the wrong person, so there are more conflicts between my husband and me.
After one of our quarrels, I slammed the door and walked alone on the street, when I thought of one of my husband’s friends, I ghostly called him and asked him to come out and talk with me.
The first time there is a second time, and then whenever my husband and I had a bad time we would call him, and he would always be the first to comfort me and give me solace for my soul. I think he is much better than my husband, gentle, considerate, he understands me better than my husband. Slowly our relationship became more and more intimate, until later did something untoward. Sometimes I wonder if I should divorce my husband and marry him.
Why do married women who cheat like to find acquaintances?
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Through the above three women’s statements, we can see that many women tend to cheat on their acquaintances, only when their husbands are not good to them, they are prone to compare these acquaintances with their own husbands, and eventually their inner scales will be tilted, thus making the betrayal of marriage.
Every woman can be married to someone else, and every woman can meet her true love outside of marriage, but marriage is not only a marriage certificate, but also a contract between two people, a responsibility and obligation, and a moral bondage.
If you’re not happy in your marriage, you can choose to get a divorce and go after your true love, but cheating on your wife is immoral, it’s a contempt for marriage and love, and it’s irresponsible for you.
So, women should pay more attention to their reputation, do not betray their marriage for the sake of that momentary love outside of marriage, thus making themselves scorned.
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