One of the commonalities of women is the importance of love, which leads the spiritual life of women, especially young women. Emotional life reconciliation, women themselves, women and men and even the connection between people and nature will be reconciled, only then will feel good and pleasant. However, more often than not, women are trapped by their love, whether they are pregnant girls or married women. Many married women have not found positive, rational, and effective forms of physiological master psychology and behavior to cope with married life, and there are various misconceptions about their perceptions, which lead to the existence of a number of psychological misconceptions among many married women.
Married women tend to fall into these 6 psychological misconceptions
The first is that being married means being married. strong>First, when you get married, everything is fixed
Many married women think that when they get married, their husbands belong to them and they don’t have to put their heart and soul into their relationship. In fact, this is a psychological misunderstanding. The fact that marriage is not the end of love and the grave, but the completion of one stage of love, thus opening another stage, marriage allows both spouses to lose a certain amount of freedom by becoming married, but this is not inevitable, marriage still requires both parties to operate with care to last.
Second, there is no need for respect between husband and wife
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Thinking that a couple can say anything without fear, some married women unintentionally treat their husbands as children, animals or machines, not knowing how to respect or not respecting their husbands, speaking without fear, thinking that nothing is too much to say between husband and wife, but sometimes some unintentional words can make their husbands suffer.
Third, imposing one’s will on others
Many married Women always use feminine norms to demand men and love to impose their will on their husbands, putting them under very great pressure and leaving them with so much helplessness that their feelings for their wives grow thin.
Fourth, misunderstanding the duties of a happy couple
Many The wife thinks that making her man happy is doing her wife’s duty, but this is actually a complete misunderstanding. The man is very easy to reach the point of excitement, and happy, satisfied after it will not find the South and forget about the duties of a husband, in line with the physiological and psychological characteristics of men and women, the mechanism of the distribution of the responsibility of the couple happy, is the man to make their wives happy, women serve to inform the man how to make women happy.
Fifth, the husband is too tightly guarded
This is a common problem of wives It’s about watching your husband too closely, intervening in everything, trying to manipulate everything, even when you simply can’t do it yourself. The wife wants to control her husband, but not to muddle through, otherwise all she gets in return is her own trepidation and her husband’s cold stare.
Sixth, it is recommended that the woman is in charge and the man is in charge
Many wives still hold on to the traditional concept of Many wives still hold the traditional concept of not letting go, suggesting that the woman is in charge and the man is in charge, taking care of all the household chores in life. Many wives take on all the household chores to support their husbands, allowing them to put more energy into their work, which is good. But when the husband has a successful job, the extra energy is put into the pleasure-seeking work.
So, women must find their own niche in the family and not lose themselves by thinking that they can stop investing in their relationships after they get married and make marriage their whole life. Therefore, women must correct this mental misconception and adjust themselves in order to maintain their independence in marriage.