Nowadays, China’s divorce rate is getting higher and higher, “not suitable to split” in the modern young couples thought roots, but things are not so simple, divorce, involving too much right and wrong, hurt is the children, and the two sides of the various conflicts heating up. So, when a marriage is in crisis, here are 5 great ways to save your marriage, take action!
One, don’t take it personally at every turn
Acceptance without preconditions is a belief. A healthy marriage is one in which both parties are willing to argue with each other only. For example, I will allow my little woman to do things that make her happy. These positions of speech have the potential to degrade the other person’s status and cause harm. If your partner wears a bathrobe every day and lounges around watching TV, and you don’t say a word or ask a question, you’re not putting money into your partner’s happiness. Maybe he’s in a bad mood, maybe he’s sick, maybe he’s just lazy. Either way, your silence and composure is how you make him feel that you don’t care. You are not the only one who has the right to ask for something, you also have the obligation to know what the other person wants.
Two, not to ask if they love
Many women get married and feel that men don’t love them as much as they used to, that they have broken their trust. And feel that men say they love themselves, is perfunctory. The most important thing is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
Three, try different changes
Many women often complain that men have changed and don’t cherish them when they get their hands on them. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The two couples alone together, you can light up the candles to eat dinner; or two legs covered with blankets, on the balcony watching the moon chat, relive the first love tender …… Now many couples also fashion a “lover sex way”, that is, from time to time to the hotel to go to the night. The first thing you need to do is to go to a hotel and spend the night. In a casual way to enjoy sex, the mood is often particularly relaxed, both to lighten the pressure, but also to enhance the intimacy between the couple. There is no fixed formula for love, and the same goes for sex. Remember, creating itself is a joy. And one more thing, there is no best way, only the way that works for you.
Fourth, handling sex correctly
Sex between couples is not just a physical thing, it is also an exchange of feelings, so it is important to maintain the marriage and handle sex correctly. There are many couples who mishandle the situation leading to the emergence of a third party. Generally, men’s desire will be stronger than women’s, which leads many women to tend to use men’s desire as a means of holding back, an approach that will only make husbands resentful and tired, not conducive to marriage maintenance.
5. Be a good wife and mother
More often than not, people claim that men and women are equal and that the old idea of “men farming and women weaving” and men taking care of the outside and women taking care of the inside is outdated. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Men a day out to work to get home, if you can see a clean and tidy house, eat aromatic meals, then he will certainly be doubly gratified. The company is also proud to be married to such a good wife and mother.