Guidance: women and men before the relationship in the growth of almost no essential difference, but many women complained about entering the relationship period and after the marriage, it is obvious that the development curve of women and men completely changed, many women see marriage as their These changes are very dangerous factors for women.
Women, it should be clear that men can become two different people showing up in front of you before and after marriage, so when in a relationship, women have to fight for any and every opportunity to understand men, romance, marriage, and also prepare themselves for their future entry into married life at the same time. Otherwise, they will get themselves into trouble.
How to choose a man?
Meeting and getting to know a man, whether from life, work, and many other aspects, is the first step in a marriage, a process in which a woman should not invest her feelings lightly. When choosing a male partner, it is important to know that a real man cannot be measured and understood from his appearance, but rather from his life background, upbringing, twitter, hobbies, attitude towards people, ideals, and many other aspects to fully judge a man’s character, will, and potential.
Another question that women often ask is whether it’s better to choose a man who loves you or a man you love, and my answer here is to choose the former. Because men are naturally like a hunter, full of unlimited enthusiasm for hunting, but to make a man an emotional captive, men will resist in their hearts, and women don’t need to do that.
How do you accept a man’s family?
When it comes to a man’s family, although it is often said that marriage is a matter of two families, the scales are not balanced, but generally focused on the male side of the family, at least in China. So the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem full of contradictions, so women get other people’s sons at the same time, but also learn to deal with men’s elders, learn to respect the mother-in-law and aunts, men’s sisters-in-law, etc. can resolve conflicts. In fact, it is to create a good environment for the woman herself, in favor of herself, and so that the man can be in the middle of the scale.
How do you manage marriage and work?
Falling in love is wonderful, but facing marriage is not only draining, but there is the concomitant responsibility and pressure. The reality of marriage is the need to use reality as a pillar to maintain emotional stability, for women, the inevitable pregnancy, child-rearing, household chores, etc., can allow men to look outside more and practice development opportunities, but over time, the development of men and women stagnant middle began to appear contradictory, boring life and the outside temptations faced by men has produced a contrast, in the face of this The contrast is created, and many women are victims of the reality of marriage.
How do you give up your personality?
When you see this question, perhaps many women nowadays will say they will stick to their individuality. But do they still say that when faced with the responsibility of two families? In the process of interacting and living with men, women should learn to amend their own personalities, if they constantly ask each other to adapt to themselves, such men and women are impossible to live together, more so in marriage, men and women have to give up their own characteristics and look for common intersections, the more intersections, the more harmonious the marriage. This does not mean that women should completely give up themselves to cater to men, men should also amend their own personalities in order to create a happy married life.