How can a couple not have a fight when they have to spend decades together in close proximity? We all know that people’s emotions are very excited when they quarrel, and in the case of excitement often have some excessive performance, such as hands or say some serious hurt each other words. The relationship experts reminded all married people that they should not do these things when they quarrel, unless you really don’t want this marriage anymore.
One, rehashing old stories, rehashing old stories when you fight
Some couples The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you’re doing. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing. The time is long, it will also look particularly unoriginal, right? The old story is not to say that it hurts the peace of mind, this quarrel should also be quarrelsome to come up with new ideas. The old things are always on your mind, how can you run to happiness without any fear? So, the forgettable or forget it! Sometimes, forgetfulness is not necessarily a bad thing.
Two, the mouth of the other side of the shortcomings of the scar
quarrel The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. A quarrel are to this set, normal people who can withstand? For example, I saw a couple quarreling on the street, the woman scolded the man for not having talent, the man was furious: “XXX has talent ah, how do you not with others, people so talented is not to see you, you dumped? Dumped you do not come to me this no good ah ……” The man is still yelling, the woman has covered her face and ran away. The two of them will be able to live in peace in the future.
Three, impulsive and ignorant, using divorce to intimidate each other
Some couples The first time I married you, I’m going to divorce you. I don’t believe the world can live without you.” “Now, immediately, we go to do the formalities, who does not divorce who is a coward!” Words like this sound tough enough! Enough to hurt feelings, right? If someone is listening at this time, want to persuade the estimate can not open the mouth, people have said so far, yes! Definitely must be divorced! In fact, a few days later, the two of them made up again as before.
Some people say that people who often talk about divorce are not the ones who get it easily. But, divorce such words, say more listen numb is not a good thing. The two of them may one day be arguing for real, thinking that every time they yell for divorce anyway, it’s a good idea to leave! This is the case, it can become a real fake drama, and then want to regret, it will be too late.
Four, childish behavior, looking for both parents to judge
In fact, this kind of thing, when you first get married, you will be able to get a divorce.
In fact, this is what my husband and I used to do when we first got married. When we quarreled, we brought each other’s parents to comment on the situation, which was very childish. In fact, what can we get out of a fight between two people? It’s just a reprimand to their own son (daughter), not much result, but also make the old man sad. Especially when the quarrel is very strong, the old people often angry face blue but can not do anything. So after we got married for a long time, we learned a good lesson, we don’t tell anyone when we fight again, we fight by ourselves, and if we can’t come up with a justification, we continue to fight. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
V. Nothing to worry about, causing psychological shadows for children
With children It’s best for couples to fight less. But after having a child, the couple always quarrel because of the child’s all kinds of things. This is a contradiction. But conflicts can be resolved peacefully, when you want to fight, think about the children, to appease their impulses! But if the time comes when you have to quarrel, you must avoid the children, never let the two bad emotions affect the children. There are often scenes on TV where adults shout and argue uncontrollably and children cower in the corner and cry. Crying is a small thing, the key is that such scenes have been left in his mind, causing irreparable shadows. This is a very deep damage to the child’s growth.
Six: Escalating arguments and using force to solve problems
Although I said at the I said above that ‘if you can’t, you can fight, but you can’t insult each other’, but don’t do it as a last resort. Quarrel is very common, but to really fight, no matter who hit who, the results are painful. Husband beat his wife? This is domestic violence, the matter to the Women’s Federation, may have to be legally responsible. Wife hit husband? Unless the wife has learned taekwondo, boxing or something, it is bound to be a loss. Besides, fighting is a kind of shrew’s performance, the quarrel has hurt each other’s hearts, and then escalated into a fight, and directly hurt the body, husband and wife, hurt who are not good. When the anger subsided two people and reconciliation, it must still be heartbroken ah!
Seven, spilling and cursing, especially at each other’s parents
Quarrel to The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing. We will not say how disgusting those hurtful words, referring to the incident of cursing alone, you two couples quarrel, why family members and friends have to follow the bad luck? They have to be dragged in to be scolded? The matter of their own little couple, behind closed doors to solve their own, the quarrel is not relieved even if the fight can, why scold people? Or scold some of the closest relatives? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Again, you are cursing each other and each other’s relatives, which no one would want to do! Perhaps caused by your quarrel is a small thing, but because of this spill open scolding, a small thing into a big thing, a small quarrel into a big fuss, and, if things really big, the most blamed for sure or scolding this party, believe it? So, how to quarrel again how to make trouble, do not swear, are a family, scolding who is not appropriate, unless you really decided not to live with him (her)! The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of these.